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Old 07-22-2010, 09:11 AM
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Hi,

I'm at the same place with my wife as well. Although we often talk about playing with others, both in the bedroom and out, we have never gotten to the point of trying.

We've discussed the how' and why's, but it's just not something she's ready to do yet, even if she finds the idea of it appealing.

What my wife has explained, is that if it were to ever happen, it would be a spur of the moment thing, not something pre-planned.

I'm sure for several people in this same situation, their spouses would also feel the same.

Since we've first started talking about it, I've tried to not make her feel pushed, which has helped in some ways, as we have gone to some different off-premises, couples only swinger clubs and even to a fetish party. We may not have joined up with anyone, but it was still a great turn on just being there together.
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