Need Some Advice

[HotcplAR]

My wife and I have been married for 10 years this year. We have an awesome marriage!! Throughout our marriage, we've discussed trying new things (i.e. another man). If we're discussing it in the heat of the moment, she's all for it. Otherwise, she's not. Before we met, she let two guys DP her. She claims that she loved it and she came really hard.

My biggest fantasy is to watch another guy fuck her. Her biggest fantasy is to fuck a stranger that neither of us know. My question is how should I approach this to get the results we both want? I asked her about a year ago if she'd ever do something like that. Her response shocked me. She said "I'd probably feel guilty FOR ENJOYING IT!!"

C'mon folks, help me out.

[socialexperiment]

DO it! Enough said. =)

[burllleee]

When you are fucking be sure and get one of her dildos and tell her to imagine it's another man there with you.
Sounds to me like she's about ready to give it a try
Please keep posting, thanks

[joshin]

I’ll tell you how I proceeded. Like many (I’d say most) couples we would fanaticize about having a third man in bed to satisfy my wife. This was mostly while in the middle of getting the job done. After the pillow talk I finally brought up the idea while not banging my wife. She seemed receptive, but was convinced nobody wanted to enjoy her body. I told her she just didn’t realize how many people out there just wanted a pussy to cum in and make their dicks feel great. I also told her she had all of the requirements to get laid pretty much anytime she wanted. She had a mouth and a pussy, all she needed was to be willing to let someone fill them up. She still protested that nobody was interested. I presented a challenge. I told her to post some pictures on sites like this one, hot or not, or some other site that has people looking to get laid. To my surprise she posted nude photos. I expected her to post photos on something like hot or not and be dressed. Within a week or two she got several solid offers to fuck from her first couple photos. I guess she found that exciting, because she started posting more photos and several videos without me prompting. Of course she protested that everyone who was offering to fuck her were nothing but a bunch of horny guys. I told her to dress a little more seductively and see what happens. So she started wearing shirts that came down a bit more, showing her ample cleavage, tighter jeans and slightly shorter skirts. She had to still keep her dress professional, since she works in a professional environment. She had several men hit on her and try to pick her up. The verbiage she told me they used made me think they were more interested in filling her pussy with their cum, rahter than what she thoght about anything. This seemed to convince her that men wanted to fuck her. Since she is very shy, she opted to go the online route. As it turned out, she started talking extensively with one guy. We are talking many hours per day, not including video chat and video sex. This wasn’t too bad until the logistics and timing became an issue. After several months they finally hooked up. The problem was she started having boyfriend feelings toward him, and hooked up behind my back. When she finally admitted to fucking him, she said she loved it and wanted to do it again. She also said she wanted to fuck more guys. I had no problem with this. She, unfortunately, did have a problem with it. She shied away from it and for a short period became almost frigid. I think she really liked it and really wanted more, but she was afraid she would go down a road where she would fuck almost anybody at anytime and it scared her. She has since started going down the road where she is wearing revealing clothing in public (much more revealing than ever before, even when she was trying to pick someone up) and she has made comments that lead me to believe she wants to fuck others again, but she is not ready to admit it to either herself or me.

Once she started hintiing (Freudian slips and actions) that she wants to fuck others again, I started giving nudges again. Hopefully she understands that the thought of having another dick making her cum makes me just as hot as it makes her.