How to get wife to swing

[gamelink1]

We love to post pics and looking at other couples and exchanging photos via email. My wife loves to imagine some strange cock in her and I think she will actually go for a swap with the right couple and at the right time. But every time I want to invite some one we have met on line and make contact she starts hesitating. What do you suggest?

[jimseohio]

My wife and I have been swinging for over 20 years. So we have a little experience. My best advice to you is to communicate with your wife at times other than during sex. Put on a pot of coffee or mix some drinks and sit down and talk the situation over. Be honest with her. If she is hesitant it means that she isn't ready, either due to moral issues or religious. My wife and I had to batter down the door to her religious beliefs. Once done, we proceeded to have a great time with other ladies and then gradually moved into couples and other guys. My wife is Bi Sexual and I am straight. We TRUST one another to an extent that we even see others alone. Just be very careful who you see and don't just pick up strangers. Get to know these people first. This lifestyle can strengthen a marriage as it has ours if you approach it in an intelligent manner. Jealousy can tear you apart. You must truely love your mate and enjoy watching him/her giving and receiving pleasure from another.. just my 2 cents worth and good luck.....Jim