Did you start out unconfident?

[nimesiwo]

Hello

Did you start out unconfident/inexperienced before you met the woman that would one day end up being your wife/cuckoldress or did you start out confident?

I'm really curious to see how many guys were unconfident and felt so lucky to find a woman that wanted them, only to find out that actually she just wanted you to be her safety while she goes out and fucks anyone she wants and gets her rocks off VS guys that were confident and had plenty of lovers etc but somehow the dynamic shifted and you ended up becoming a cuck.
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I've noticed that a LOT of the guys on here seem to be pretty small and a lot also seem to have been pretty inexperienced before getting with their wife, but I've also seen that some are the opposite so it'll be interesting to see if there's a trend.

It annoys me that this stuff is so interesting to me and my lack of experience/health issues make it feel inescapable for me.. but I can't help but be curious at the same time.. (damn you Libra-Scorpio cusper/autistic curiosity/thirst for knowledge!)

Sorry if this has been a thread before, I tried searching to figure out if it was but the search isn't working.

[burllleee]

This is interesting. I don't think many guys know they want to be a cuck till it happens and they find they really enjoy it.
I'm looking forward to hearing some replies to this.

[kjs1961]

In our case, it was the other way around.
Nina wasn't inexperienced by any stretch of the imagination. She'd had sex with several boyfriends over the years and given BJ's to even more but that was the extent of it.
I "stumbled" upon the fact that she liked being restrained.
As her professional life became more stressful and demanding, she became more submissive in areas involving sex. Having so much responsibility and authority during the day, I guess she needed a way to relinquish control at night.
She also had a hidden exhibitionist side to her. She's not much into watching but she enjoys showing. More specifically, she likes the idea of someone watching more than just someone standing in the corner of the room watching.

All of these traits had to be coaxed out of her.
It's hard to overcome your upbringing.

[Sancho69]

My fiancee had MFM sex experience. I did not. She explained MFM sex in graphic detail to me. She picked her former boyfriend to initiate me to MFM sex. I'm 100% straight. So is her former boyfriend.

My fiancee's former boyfriend was a perfect fit to initiate me to MFM sex. They had a very sexually active relation while they dated. They knew how the other most loved sex. He's genuinely nice. He pampers and spoils her. Because my fiancee explained MFM sex to me in graphic detail prior to my initiation and because the other guy was her former boyfriend, I was completely confident during my MFM sex initiation.

I'm the complete opposite of a cuck. If my fiancee's fucking, I want to be actively involved. However, there have been many times that after I came a couple times and drank more than I should've, I've fallen asleep while they continued to have sex.

[kjs1961]

I think it's interesting how the term "cuckold" now is supposed to involve humiliation on the part of the husband.
The term goes back to the middle ages and refers to a man who unknowingly raises another man's child as his own. It comes from the cuckoo bird which has been known to lay it's eggs in another bird's nest, to be incubated and raised by that bird.
Back then, if a woman didn't produce an heir for the man, it was grounds for divorce and back then there weren't a whole lot of options available for single women (over the age of 13 or so). So if she didn't start having babies in a hurry, she could find herself stuck with "the oldest profession" as a way to put a roof over her head and food in her belly.
Because there was little understanding of exactly how the male and female reproductive systems worked there was no way to tell if the problem was with her or his equipment.
If she didn't find herself "in a family way" in the first year, she might go out and find another sperm donor to find out if "she" wasn't the reason they had no kids.
Of course, once she did become pregnant, she could hardly tell her husband it wasn't his so he raised it as his own.
Of course now it refers to a man whose wife has sex with other men, with or without his knowledge and either with or without his consent.

[burllleee]

That's very interesting Kevin/Nina, thanks

[Sancho69]

Hi kjs1961,

I do not believe cuckold relationships are humiliating. What people decide to do during sex is only their business.

For me, if my fiancee is fucking, I want to be a part of the action. Reality is she can go a lot longer than me. Hence, she has continued fucking after I've fallen asleep.

BTW, her former boyfriend has incredible sexual stamina. My fiancee told me that while they were in a relationship, they'd fuck at least twice a day, often three and more times a day. She said he's had unbelievable sexual stamina while they dated. She loved it because she was in her sexual prime and wanted and still wants sex all the time. It was not uncommon for him to get four wads when we did MFM sex with him. After I got two, I'd usually fall asleep. Often I'd awake to my fiancee's former boyfriend fucking her brains out.