I'd like some advice from bi husbands and their wives
 

Hi all,
Are you a bi hubby with an awesome wife who allows you to be who you really are and enjoy all you sexual desires?
I am!! Well sorta..
My wife and I have been together for almost six years and would not change her for anything she knows that I am bi and accepts me for it. occasionally maybe about 3-4 times a year we get together with a guy we know and have a hot 3 some where I can enjoy her and him and man is it hot!!
While I love having fun with her I feel its not as much as I would like too. At the moment we have not had any fun for quite a while she just had a baby and life could not be better but in the back of my head I always have that desire to suck some cock specially now with a baby I think its going to go from few times to none. I love my wife and she loves me and I don't want that to change my question is how can I bring it up to her that I would like to have a few friends whom I can suck when I want I don't want to do it behind her back that would not be a good idea but I also don't want to hurt her by bluntly saying "Hey let me find cocks to suck on my own" how can I bring it up? Of course she would know who I play with and they we could all play when she is up for it
Idk maybe she won't care maybe she will...
If your husband is bi and has friends he plays with how did he ask you? Do you care?
Or should it only be something you do together?
Just want some advice or some stories thanks all

Sharing your Bi Side With Your Wife
 

We have a similar situation and I do my best to always reassure her that my bi-sex is so much more pleasurable with her included. I always tell her that I want her more when she is included in my sexual fun and it pains me when she says she is ok for me to do it behind her back. I always tell her I love her so much more for accepting my bi-side and being part of it with me. She is warming up after 12 years.

With your wife's pregnancy, you should be especially sensitive to her needs and wants. Remind her how beautiful she is even pregnant and you want her even more like that. Of course, if you like breast milk, help her out. We had a day or 2 when baby didn't want her milk and her tits were so swollen and hurting, she asked me to suck out all her milk. I eagerly obliged her!!!

You can use certain aspects of a cuckold relationship too. Give her the opportunity to dominate you and make you suck cock. Maybe she thinks you've misbehaved and need some punishment. She can spank your ass and order you to suck cock and swallow . . . . . .or whatever your hearts deisre.

Get your wife to post ads for you looking for cock. Let her arrange your meets and chat with the other bi men. Include her always and remind her that without her, it just isn't the same loving feeling you have for her.

My wife is also more approachable about sex when she is already aroused.

Hope that all helps and keep us posted on how things work out. You can always PM us and we can chat more.

I too am bi and her sub. Fortunately for me, she is very active with other men and many of them are bi so I have no trouble having my needs met. I have never been in your situation and so, sadly, don't have any good advice for you. All I can say is do be supportive of her in her role as a mother.

I can only dream of having a wife or girlfriend that would allow me to suck dicks with her. It seems you guys are already in a position of having your cake and eating it too. As to the wife having a child. I would be very careful of how you bring this up. Her attention might be soley on the child welfare right now. Bring up this topic might make her think the wrong kind of things.

The reason I say that is that when my wife ex wife had our daughter our sex life changed drastically. My wife used to ask me to go to video rental place and rent some porn for us to watch, She loved the lesbian stuff and like watching me jerk off to to other women. When the bay came, she thought that we should not do that stuff as much. Then the sex stopped all together, we then got a divorce.

I'm not saying that you'll get a divorce, I'm saying be careful of the way you say you want to play with a guy. Good luck and keep sucking!