3some with a good friend or not?
 

well the title pretty much says it all.....we have known him for quite a while now and he now knows what we get up to and has shown quite a lot of interest....asking questions and that....we have been joking about it but it has turned kinda serious.....good idea? or not?what are your thoughts or experiences of this? xx

Oh yeah, it's fine.
Let's see some pics please :)

Thats a good way to start out in order to get comfortable with the fact that someone else is fucking your wife. But longterm, no, not a good idea

I love sharing
 

For me I learned to share Paul and to be shared by him. Sex for us is just something that feels good and we each have learned to get turned on by either seeing or hearing about the others sexual activity. If it is good we usually share the person with each other. It is all in the state of mind. We make love to each other but we fuck and get fucked by others...Rhonda

Love the pics...especially the one of Paul cumming in his daughter's mouth. SO HOT!!

If he's a good friend and you're all attracted to each other, why not? As long as he understands there are emotional boundaries you are already friends, why not enjoy each other. I fucked on of my husbands best friends for years, we never had a problem. I don't know how many times we were together as a threesome, a few hundred times maybe. I also fucked him singly after a while as well.

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my wife has been fucking my friends since we got into this. I get a new friend, if he shows any interest then in a while he gets a new fuck buddy. Over the years she has banged all my friends. It doesn't mess up the friendships at all. In fact it makes them closer.

We've had different experiences. I have shared my wife with two friends.
The first time was spontaneous, we all got hot drinking a bit at home and it end up with us fucking her in turns and him cumming in her face.

I've never felt that aroused as when seeing her with someone else. The feeling of taboo, the jealousy mixed with pure excitement. It's awesome.

On the other hand, our last adventure with a friend ended up badly. Since it happened we've met only once and it was very awkward from his side. I guess he feels embarrassed and wished it had never happened. This has also affected my wife as she also wished it had never happened (with him).

The other experiences were great. She got along well with our first friend (who joined us three times) and kept on flirting with him on parties when we were there together. As if it was our little secret.
We meet the second guy (and his wife) regularly, and it doesn't really come up (and my wife is reluctant to make it happen again) but we all joke about it regularly, especially with other people around who know nothing.

So TLDR; it can go greatly, or it can backfire and hurt the relationship with your friend.

Out of personal experience i would advice you to do a 3some with a stranger and not with a friend. In my case the realtionship between the people involved changed and NOT to the good.

Wife with other guys
 

We have had 3 somes many many times and a lot times the men have been close friends. All of the close friends know that she has boundaries and just like Vegas what happens in our house or motels stays there. We enjoy sex with other guys and girls for recreational fun. We swing a lot with couples some we have known for years and some we've met on line. One couple we've been together with many years changed up our meeting after two or three years. She started requesting no condoms when I was with her. This went on for about four months then one Saturday night when they came over for our play time she came in and very happy said you did it. I guess I looked like a dear in the head lights. Then my wife was clapping and smiled at me then said finely you got her pregnant. I was the only one not into the plan. She had always wanted a child but her husband was not able to impregnate her. So the two wives and her husband discussed and cooked up the idea. Her husband and I do look a lot alike only he's about fifteen years younger than me. Well a long story short I had sex with her clear up until she had the baby. And we are the godparents and still are good friends and continue to have sex together. So sex with good friends can be a good thing.