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You're reactions are totally normal. The first time I watched my wife get fucked, I almost fainted. My cock almost exploded it was so hard. I was jealous and turned on and super attracted to my wife all at once.
To be honest no one knows for sure how they will react. We are now divorced but since that time, I've never been with a woman who won't fuck other guys. My current girlfriend (see our profile) is just about ready to fuck some strange dick. It is not for everyone, but you are here, so maybe you already know it is for you. |
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my ex wife admitted that she had fucked other men behind my back, but I never got to watch or join in,
one night she even came home with dried cum on her belly and just got into bed. I was outraged but so turned on at the same time. we are not together now but I still like to think about what she might be getting up to. hence why I started photo shopping her in all situations for my own perverse pleasure. I would love to see it for real though just once mmm |
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The women are really going the extra mile for us when they do this. Yes, I know they get a lot out of it too but they are really jumping through mental hoops to be able to do it. I think any of us who have been through this experience exactly what you are going through. I can attest to the fact that over time, the jealousy and anger do disappear (in my case) but if they don't disappear completely, the become very minimal. Having said that, you really don't know how you are going to behave until it happens. If you think you can't keep it together and be supportive of her for doing it then maybe don't join with them for a while until you feel you can. |
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As the various responders indicate we are all different in our reactions to this, even if WE want it.
It has been a long time, but I never had any problems when my wife let another man fuck her. I WANTED her to and I loved every minute of it, whether I was there or not. The only time there was a problem was when we were first married and she gave an overly enthusiastic friendly kissing greeting to someone else's new boyfriend when she was introduced to them for the first time. On the two occasions when this happened EVERYONE, including the other guy, was taken aback and I WAS upset at her sudden, out of character action. On the other hand, her actions, and later titillating statements during the first 2-3 years of our marriage, fueled my desire to have her let other men fuck her, which she eventually did do on her own initiative and to my surprised delight. My only regret is that it didn't start a little sooner and last longer, with several more men involved, preferably many more men. I would love to have had her get gang-banged, but that only came close to happening twice. There were plenty of guys who were interested in fucking her, including gang-banging her. Comments were overheard and she was even approached a couple of times, once at a CB club gathering, and another time at a salesmen's convention she was working at as a waitress. I KNOW these were serious opportunities but, as DaveMack suggests, she was doing a lot of mental hoop jumping and by the time she made up her mind to act the moment had passed, to my great disappointment. As for you, If you have any doubts about your ability to handle your jealousy issues, I would recommend letting it lie. In MY case there was no problem because I am very much NOT a jealous man. Whichever way you go, I wish you the best of luck. |
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Hello,
Thanks for all the information and feed back. I appreciate it. My wife and I are moving slowly/forward with being open and honest about her fucking other people. My wife right now, as I type has been at her fuck buddies house for 1 1/2 hours so far. (this is the first guy she has been with since we got together. She was only with him the one time before tonight). I can't wait for her to come home. Im like a little boy waiting for christmas morning. I can't wait to here every little detail about there time spent together tonight. I have a rock hard boner just thinking about it. I can't wait to lick and fuck her vagina knowing his big dick was just in her. Im excited to see if he came in her beautiful pussy. Now I need to work on her being ok with having a MFM threesome. She definitely wants and can handle it, she just needs a little convincing. She is afraid how Im going to react when it is happening right in front of me. Im really turned on by the thought of it, but don't know exactly how I will feel since I have never been in the situation before. All I know is i can't wait for her to come home tonight and while I'm inside her, here how good he fucked her tonight. Always open to any thoughts and advice. Any women have any input on how to convince her to let us have a threesome. Thanks |
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I'm not a woman but I've been in this situation with more than one woman. I've found that the key is to convince her that it wont change your feelings for her. A lot of women are afraid of two thing, 1 that it will change how you feel about her, 2 that you just want a accuse to fuck other women. If you can get her over these two fears most times you will be able to get her into a threesome. Lucky for me, my wife wanted to be a slut, so I just had to convince her that it was what I wanted too! Matt
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I agree with blackhat, sounds like good advice to me
Has she told her b/f that you know he's fucking her? I think you should get her to feel him out and see how he feels about it too. Good luck. So, has she got home yet? Did he cum in her pussy? I'd love to see some pics of her and hear all the story about what happened earlier tonight Please keep posting, thanks |
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Thanks for the info guys.
Bad news for me (Probably her as well) The other night her side guy (Guy #1) couldn't handle her amazing blow jobs. She made him cum in her mouth in about 45 seconds and then decided to be a selfish lover. So she didn't get fucked good and hard by his big dick like she wanted. They sat and talked for a while since they are friends. Scum bag didn't even re load and fuck her when he was ready. So she came home extra horny but with no good stories, so I gave her 3 big orgasms. She is at a hotel as i type with guy # 2 for the first time since she met me. He lives in another state and they have been talking on the computer and sending nudes for about a year now. He travels a lot for work and finally had a reason to come to where we live for work and pleasure. From what my wife tells and shows me, he seems like he is going to really please her and be a animal in bed. We are both excited for tonight (She is probably screaming excited at this very moment) Especially since the 45 second man on Friday night. I know she is going to be with him for about 5 hours. Its there first time together. I asked her to try to get some video of her chocking on his cock and of him fucking her really good and hard. She will as long as he's not freaked out by it. Im waiting patiently for her return. |
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