Non-Monogamous Marriage Agreement

[JWylde]

How many of you married your wives with the pre-agreement that she would not be monogamous? When you asked to marry her and she dropped that on you, how did that conversation go? Was it like "I'll marry you, but I will continue to fuck other men an no one is off limits...not even your buddies. You might come home to find me fucking a good friend of yours and I will continue to fuck him" or was it something more subtle?

[num1scamp]

My husband and I met swinging, so we never expected to be monogamous with each other. But I don't fuck anyone with out him knowing, he lets me know whatever he does as well. We pretty much both understood that each of us had a very high sex drive and liked the variety of different partners. For us it's worked out very well. I do know others that it hasn't worked for though. One of my husbands ex-girlfriends married a guy and she has continually cheated on him through out their marriage.

j

[DaveMack]

We never had a formal agreement. I asked her to fuck some of my buddies when we were dating. She did and loved it. We also knew we were serious about each other. As close as we came to an agreement was one night after she had done me and two other guys she said you know this isn't going to stop after we're married.

[sexhound46217]

For the first seven years we were married we didn't have sex with anyone else. But when the wife was pregnant with our second child she was horny 24/7. One evening I had some friends over and she wasn't aware of that and came down stairs where we were watching a ballgame. She was dressed in a very sheer gown with only one thing on her mind. She wanted to have sex in the worst way and never payed attention to the other guys in the room. She walked over to the TV where I was standing and started to rub my crotch telling me she wanted some of that dick. And before I could say anything she had my pants unziped and pulled out my dick and dropped to her knees to suck my dick. And she did and still loves to suck. As the guys sat back watching the show one of them sneezed and she pulled off my dick and looked around and saw them sitting on the opposite side of the room. She was imberassed at first then said oh what the hell and motioned one of them to where she was kneeling. He sheepishly walked over the her and she unzipped his pants and pulled out his already hard cock and she proceeded to give him a blow job. As she was finishing him up and swallowing his load the other three were already lined up with their cocks out waiting their turn. Well she sucked each one that evening and three of them went down on her and ate her pussy. After they left she fucked my brains out and told me how much fun she'd had and ask if I enjoyed the show. I said I had enjoyed it and it made my dick so hard I could have driven railroad spikes with it. Well the guys made a point to stop by at least once a week and she enjoyed every minute of it. That was thirty-seven years ago and never looked back yet and still enjoy sex with couples and men..

[JMNBABE]

We both had marriages that broke up over lying and cheating...….we had a LONG conversation about fidelity and honesty and decided the HONESTY was the most important for both of us, although she of course professed total fidelity too...….

2 years later she came to me and admitted she was not "working late" Friday, she was meeting a guy from work that had been coming on to her and they had progressed from flirting to they were meeting Friday for sex. LOL, lasted a whole 2 years!!

She wasn't offering NOT to go...……..she was being HONEST and letting me know before she went behind my back. Luckily, I was as caught up in her excitement at what was going to happen, and we spent the week getting her ready for her date and had a FANTASTIC time with it. She had a pleasant 6 month affair with the guy, they only stopped when he got cold feet over his wife asking about all the overtime he was working.

Since then, there have been a LOT of other affairs. But we agreed that honesty was most important.

CW

[burllleee]

Originally Posted by JMNBABE

We both had marriages that broke up over lying and cheating...….we had a LONG conversation about fidelity and honesty and decided the HONESTY was the most important for both of us, although she of course professed total fidelity too...….

2 years later she came to me and admitted she was not "working late" Friday, she was meeting a guy from work that had been coming on to her and they had progressed from flirting to they were meeting Friday for sex. LOL, lasted a whole 2 years!!

She wasn't offering NOT to go...……..she was being HONEST and letting me know before she went behind my back. Luckily, I was as caught up in her excitement at what was going to happen, and we spent the week getting her ready for her date and had a FANTASTIC time with it. She had a pleasant 6 month affair with the guy, they only stopped when he got cold feet over his wife asking about all the overtime he was working.

Since then, there have been a LOT of other affairs. But we agreed that honesty was most important.

CW

What happened after her dates with him during the 6 months it lasted JMN? Did you get some when she got home or what?
I'd love to hear about the other affairs too.
Please keep posting, thanks

[burllleee]

Originally Posted by kjs1961

It wasn’t something we planned or even talked about but the first time I saw her with another dick in her mouth while we fucked was such a turn on that I don’t think there was any putting that toothpaste back in the tube.

Oh that's hot KJS
So you actually had your cock in her pussy the first time you saw her take another cock in her mouth? Damn, if I saw my wife take one in her mouth while I was fucking her I'm pretty sure I'd lose my load .
Please keep posting, thanks

[Butterflyz87]

Originally Posted by JWylde

How many of you married your wives with the pre-agreement that she would not be monogamous? When you asked to marry her and she dropped that on you, how did that conversation go? Was it like "I'll marry you, but I will continue to fuck other men an no one is off limits...not even your buddies. You might come home to find me fucking a good friend of yours and I will continue to fuck him" or was it something more subtle?

I would like to be a fly on the wall for someone being that bold. My husband and I were never exclusive through our entire relationship. Long story short we kept that when we decided to get married.

[USMC_BAREBACKER]

We're poly, but she has to have my permission to fuck other men. Females are fair game.