Thoughts on being rented out
So I had one of my hubbies friends ask us, if we would ever agree to me being “rented” out for an evening. He mentioned something like a girlfriend experience with benefits. Which I equate to a hooker essentially. I was pissed initially but have calmed down some now, My hubby and I have chatted about it some but he was pretty pissed too in how it was brought up. The guy is married and he knows we will share and have other sex partners. He’s seen me topless a few times around the pool and house, but that’s it,
I’m not sure what to think about it honestly. As I am not a prostitute and it still gets me fired up. I have given blow jobs for money to shut up one of my hubbies other friends who kept shooting his mouth off. But I dont have sex for money. My hubby was unique in that our first official date lasted 12 hours and it was awesome. Our second date lasted the weekend and we had incredible sex and we clicked in every way possible. Just venting some and I was looking for others thoughts. |
I'd say it sounds more escort like rather than prostitute. Rented out to me would imply that he wants all the experience such as a date but maybe I am giving this too much credit. I can see how this could be offending as being open/swingers doesn't mean we fuck every person that comes along along and people's assumptions aren't warranted or wanted.
I guess all in all it depends on your level of friendship with this person. Maybe make a point and tell him you aren't bought, you chose your sexual partners. |
But if it hadn't involved money, you wudda been ok with it? Don't think about the money, if it sounds like fun do it. Sounds good to me. Don't put more into it than he intended.
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I don't know how I feel about this Bow. I'll have to give it some thought ;)
Without giving it much thought I kinda find it exciting for some reason.....lol. I love that he's seen you topless. I just wish I could be around you and get to see those sexy tits of yours. Please keep posting, thanks :) |
So after we thought about it more and looked at it from an escort type of roll, that changed our attitudes a bit about it. Up until now we have done swapping and such, but it’s been with someone who we both picked out or agreed upon. With the exception of Chris my college young man. That was a surprise by my hubby and something he knew I would enjoy and who he vetted out beforehand.
Upon looking at it from an escort perspective it might be kind of fun, but it’s something we haven’t done before, Like I said, my hubby has always been there while we swapped or it was something he arranged in his absence. So while his buddy has seen me topless before he hasn’t sampled the goods. |
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I do enjoy sex and if my husband does not know who cares. The money part for me is just icing on the cake!
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Many, many years ago my wife worked as a waitress in a hotel bar. We were swinging on the nights she had off and she often picked up guys for a play session after work before she came home. She did a lot of guys and I was great with it. Of course, being easy working in a bar, word gets out so she was popular but she wasn't the only woman having fun. Some were married like my wife and playing with hubby's knowledge and support, some were cheating and there were single women just having a good time.
One of the women working there was turning tricks on the side. She kept telling my wife she should try it. My wife talked to me about it several times because the idea intrigued her. The idea of getting paid to do something she loved to do appealed to her. I was against it for two reasons, one of course was her safety and the other was the fact it wasn't legal here at that time. I didn't want her to wind up with a record either. Anyway, for whatever reason, even though it wasn't something I thought she should do, she finally gave it a go and liked it. She continued to turn tricks off and on for the next two years. I was worried about her but have to admit, having my wife fucking other guys for money was wildly exciting while it lasted. |
Wife has done this.....
several times for Lovers over the years. Her favorite was a Black Lover who pimped her in after hours clubs, and to friends and family doing "outcalls". he would call her at work even, and tell her where she needed to be and what to expect, she would find an excuse to leave work, go take care of their needs, and go back to work dripping the sperm of the guys she had just serviced!! She LOVED it!!
He was prepping her for "streetwalking" when his drug habit caught up with him, and he's doing 10 in prison now. She REALLY wanted to try street walking, and was getting caught up in the drugs with him too.....I expect our lives would be VERY different if he had not landed in prison. Doubt we would still be married. She still is in contact with him, and he wants her to visit him for a conjugal visit....she's scared to go to a prison tho. He's also told her he wants to set her up doing paid conjugal visits for other inmates too!! She is fascinated about that, but scared to move on it....probably smart. She is quite enamored that guys will PAY her for something she would do for free, that's not a bad way to look at this offer. Why be offended that men would find you attractive enough to pay you for sex/company? Give it a shot, see how it goes...….CW |
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