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I do not understand that either. I feel that kissing is part of the whole experience.
I think the excuse was pretty weak. She should have expressed her boundaries up front. I wonder if she knew her husband kissed your wife. Maybe he broke one of their rules. Hope you still enjoyed the time even if the goodbye lacked passion. .d |
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We don't get it exactly either. But then again there's similar things that can bite you one the ass doing all this stuff too (I'll get to that in a bit)./
We have no problems with kissing and when we do run into "no kissers" we get a bit more cautious. Reason being is it's a sign that the couple (or half the couple) might be suffering from jealousy pangs which stem from either a lack of self confidence or a lack of confidence in their own relationship. I'm sure there's many people with sadder tales than mine but Wifey and I had an awesome evening with a couple ruined when the guy went berserk and tore up their living room. Earlier when we were talking with them they seemed to be extremely comfortable and as dirty as ourselves. It's a long story I've told at length elsewhere ... it ends with me wondering if Wifey's going to kill the guy or something (pretty sure he thought it was a real possibility, LOL). We ended up taking the GF with us and dropped her off at their friends a few miles away. Never heard from them again and they really did seem like they were up for anything. With couples you often find an "unbalance" in one way or another, one is more enthused , comfortable, horny or whatever.... sometime it's obvious they really shouldn't be doing this stuff. It's one reason we do the MFM thing (or the MMMMFM thing, LOL) a little more than the couple thing. Of course MFMs are a lot of fun anyway. We're all pretty warped. We think it's part of the attraction (all the forbidden and mind trip stuff that goes with the territory) but you never know when when someones internal dialog is going to set them off. I'm pretty good at picking up on that sort of thing but we had no clue at all as this particular couple gave no sign of being anything other than all in. Earlier when we were swapping "war stories" they had us thinking we were going to be hanging out with them a lot. Wouldn't want to offend anyone but we do get a little more cautious than before that happened. We understand people have limits.... ours are more about the gross stuff like scat play (yuck) or perhaps drawing attention that can cause problems. We've played with people that have a "no kissing" rule where everything went fine and there are people that seem to just need to draw a symbolic line somewhere for whatever reasons they have that are fun to hang out with. |
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