Women's Sexual Fantasies

[Sancho69]

I just got off the phone with my fiancee. We talked about her male friend getting the idea he can use my fiancee as a booty call. She told me that that will never happen.

My fiancee was married to a sexual amateur. She hated fucking him. He was clueless when it came to great sex. She loved great sex.

He ridiculed her because she told him of only one of her sexual fantasies. She has many sexual fantasies. All of her sexual fantasies are common and very normal female sexual fantasies. Porn star is another of my fiancee's dominant sexual fantasies.

She has been with more than a few men who were intimidated by her sexuality. She rhetorically mused about why men can't grasp the concept of women's sexual fantasies, yet the very men who shunned her fantasies wanted her to invite her girlfriends for threesomes. They desired two women. But if she remotely mentioned another man, they thought she was weird. Fucking two men is a very common female fantasy.

Hopefully you guys can explain it. Why do most men want their wives/girlfriends/fiancees to bring their girlfriends for a threesome, yet they will object to a threesome with another man?

When my fiancee told me she had had MFM sex and loved it, I did not judge her. When she asked me if I would be willing to do MFM sex with her, I researched it and found it among the most common female fantasies. I told her that I would be willing to fulfill her MFM fantasy.

A substantial population of women have had at least one MFM sexual experience. My fiancee told me that many of her sorority sisters did MFM threesomes. A few of her married girlfriends routinely engage in MFM threesomes. So why do men want a threesome with their wives yet will not consider threesomes with their wives and another man? It was a good question. I did not have an answer for my fiancee.

Sexually healthy and uninhibited women in their sexual primes love and crave sex probably more so than men. Sexual euphoria is more intense for women than men. I completely get it why many women want and often crave MFM sex.

[Sancho69]

BTW, my fiancee offered FMF sex to me. I turned her down. I can't keep up with her. Fucking her and another woman would just about kill me. Had she asked me 20 years ago, I'd of been all over it.

[burllleee]

Damn, she sounds hot. I'd love to see some pics of her
Please keep posting, thanks

[Sancho69]

Merry Christmas kjs1961,

This is en excellent site because it allows me to discuss my fiancee's fantasies with anonymity. I could ask my friends for the advice I've gotten here.

I agree with everything in your last post. Your post was perfectly written.

My fiancee and I are 100% straight. I love pussy and she loves cock. In fact, my fiancee is mystified and curious of cocks. She has actually studied medical research on cocks. Her male friend is a physician. He has explained to her in great detail (probably while she had his cock inside of her mouth) the process of male sexual arousal and male orgasm. I'd take odds that my fiancee knows more about cock than most men.

Women in their sexual primes can fuck all day long. They're always horny. My fiancee can have a dozen orgasms a day. Hence, the theory that women were not intended to be monogamous might have substance. I know that I have one certain orgasm at discretionary disposal. Sometimes I can pull off two. If my fiancee and I are together all day, she can get three out of me. In contrast, she could fuck as many men as I could squeeze into a bedroom. Many times I'll pull my cock out of her mouth because I know that if I were to shoot a wad down her throat, I probably wouldn't be able to fuck her.

Years ago, when my fiancee first asked me if I wanted anal sex, I told her that if I did fuck her ass, I could not guarantee fucking her pussy. After she orgasms, she demands to be fucked rough, hard, nasty, with lots of ass slapping and hair pulling. She understood. She asked because, according to her, most men want anal sex, so she thought I would ask for it. She was curious of why I had never showed interest in anal sex.

[Sancho69]

Merry Christmas burllleee,

Thanks. She is hot. She could get an erection out of a eunuch,

I do not think that my fiancee's sexuality is any different from other sexually healthy and uninhibited women. What does set her apart is her sexual confidence, social confidence, and her honesty. She will tell me what most other women think and desire but are intimidated to say and explore. My fiancee learned sex by engaging in sex. She has loved sex since her first sex act. She has a pragmatic, realistic view of sex. Guys who knew how to fuck her caused her to experience mystical sexual euphoria. Orgasms relieved stress and allowed her to improve his mood. My fiancee has told me a few times that she had FWB sex because she craved euphoria sex bestowed upon her. She believed that if sex relieved stress and was physically and psychologically beneficial for her, it was logical for her to get her brains fucked out.

My guess is most husbands/boyfriends would have shit fits if their wives/girlfriends told them that they would like to try MFM sex. Those same husbands/boyfriends probably have tried to get their wives/girlfriends to do FMF sex. In honesty, I was slightly shocked when my fiancee told me that she wanted to introduce me to MFM sex, and that she loved MFM sex. I researched it and found it to be a common albeit under-reported female sexual fantasy. I know more than a few women who have told me that they have MFM sex fantasies. A few of my fiancee's married girlfriends routinely engage in MFM sex.

I can't post photos of my fiancee on the 'net. Once posted, they're always on the 'net.

[Sancho69]

Another of my fiancee's sexual fantasies is stranger sex. She wants to go to a bar in a high rent resort with me. She'll find a man sitting alone. She'll sit next to him and flirt with him. She'll convey to him that he can fulfill his every sexual fantasy on her body. She'll go to his room and let him do what he desires with her body. If he's good with a threesome, she'll text me to join them. She'll text me his room number before going inside. She'll want me right outside of his hotel room door in case he gets too weird for her. After he's sexually exhausted, my fiancee will leave and meet me outside of his door. I'll take her home so she can shower.

She has it elaborately planned. She's rationalized it by telling me that men look for one night stands all the time. It would be no different than a one night stand.

Her biggest fear is an STD. Hence, she'd look for a middle-aged, married man.

[num1scamp]

I must admit that I've had stranger sex more than a few times and found it very enjoyable. Many times not even exchanging names. There have been times when traveling on business or on vacation when my husband has essentially given me carte blanche to do as I wished sexually. At times I certainly made use of that permission. The flirting, touching, the expectation, of what might happen all contributes to a possibly exciting moment. Many times with a man I found attractive to me, it's happened and resulted in a very pleasurable experience. Once in Mexico, I fucked a young man against a palm tree, who had been eyeing me on the flight down. We wound up in the same hotel, late that night I ran into him in the hotel bar. I asked him if he'd like to take a walk on the beach with me. We got about 40' from the door and I turned to him, he just took me in his arms and kissed me. We leaned against that palm tree, and kissed and explored each others bodies. He pulled my top down and bared my breasts, I got his cock out as he sucked my nipples hard. Then he just picked me up against the tree and entered me. Our first fuck was right there, standing up, and we both came very hard. It's one of those memories you don't forget, I'd bet he hasn't forgotten it either.

j

[Sancho69]

Happy New Year j,

You and my fiancee are two of a kind.

My guess is you're experiencing what most women wish they could. My fiancee has told me she has empathy for women who deny opportunities to experience sexual euphoria or have to deny them due to controlling boyfriends/husbands. My fiancee had a horrible sex life with her ex-husband. She had a phenomenal sex life before she met the inexperienced eunuch. She tried to teach him. He refused to earn. She considers her divorce sexual liberation.

My fiancee and I understand human sexuality. I have never, ever judged my fiancee's past sexuality. I am 100% supportive of her experiencing her sexual fantasies.

It is her idea to have a 100% monogamous marriage. I am in total agreement. She has knowledge of a few of her girlfriends who routinely engage in multiple partner sex. They have invited my fiancee to a few of their parties. Out of privacy concerns, she declined. My fiancee does not want to endure the onerous burdens her girlfriends have to endure due to hiding their sexual adventures from their kids, families, extended families, churches, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. My fiancee and I firmly believe that others' sexual activities are no one's business but those involved. The reality is people are naturally nosy and they love to gossip.

After my divorce, I've dated many sexually repressed women. Nearly every single one came from marriages to husbands who had antiquated sexual beliefs. What was irredeemable for their husbands was that they treated their wives as unruly children. They refused to acknowledge their wives' sexual desires. It was as though they viewed their wives as entities who existed to service their sexual needs. As soon as they got into my bedrooms, I assured and encouraged them to enjoy their sexuality. One woman with whom I've remained close friends gave me road head on our first date. I took her to an elegant restaurant. She was not feeling pain. I listened and comforted her as she purged years of sexual and marital pain. As soon as we left the restaurant, she sucked my cock while driving on Pacific Coast Highway. I've fucked her many times. She knew that she was free to do anything she desired and I would never judge her. She was in her sexual prime. There are millions of women who have to endure horrible sex because they're tied in to insecure husbands who are clueless of woman's sexual fantasies and desires.

The clitoris is the only organ on the human body with the sole function of providing sexual euphoria to women. The clit as the only organ on the human body having the sole function of rewarding women with sexual euphoria should be a huge clue for men that women enjoy sex at least as much if not more than men. Women have more sexual fantasies than men. Men only care about shooting wads. Women's sexual fantasies seem to be far more elaborate than men's sexual fantasies. Women's sexual fantasies seem to be extensively comprehensive, with attention to environment and detail. Men can experience their sexual fantasies in back seats of cars.

j, I am happy for you. You are able to experience a healthy and euphoric sex life that is denied to most women. My guess is you're a happy and content woman with high levels of self-confidence and self-esteem. You probably have a lot of friends who are from diverse backgrounds. And I'm sure that women who know of your sexuality wish they could be you.

My fiancee was fortunate to have a boyfriend who encouraged and supported her sexuality. She was 19. He was close to his mid-20's. He encouraged her to experience sexual euphoria. I'd bet every dime I have that he had the ulterior motive of getting all the pussy, blow jobs, and anal sex he could handle out of my fiancee. So what? She kept his cock hard and she learned sexual euphoria. It was win-win. She has craved sex since her first puppy love's sexual instruction. Sex has been therapeutic for my fiancee. She fucked her way through college because sexual euphoria helped her to cope with rigorous academic stress. Instead of drugs or alcohol, she had sex to relieve stress with blissful euphoria.

The other night my fiancee and I delivered Christmas presents to her friends and familiy. We stopped by her male friend's home. We stayed an hour, much longer than we had anticipated. We did not engage in sex. But they did talk as two very close friend would talk. For those unfamiliar with our arrangement and my fiancee being very close to her male friend, it would seem bizarre that they could talk intimately and graphically about sex. I listened to them. He does have a lot of stress. I had figured but wasn't sure that he had to worry about women who enticed him with sex to trap him with pregnancy. He has told us of physician friends he has who have been trapped by deceiving women. A year ago he had a scare. A woman whom he knew superficially told him she was knocked up. He had been fucking her on a regular basis. But he knew nothing about her. He knew she could be carrying his baby. His lawyer hired a PI. Long story short, she was fucking many rich men hoping to trap one in order to live a life of luxury. He was not the father. Now he's is gun shy. He is very selective about women he dates and more selective about women he'll fuck. He will not fuck a woman if he detects indicators of an STD. That is the primary reason he wants to remain the other guy in my fiancee's threesome fantasy. He knows she is not after his money. He knows she does not want to have his child. He knows she is STD and disease free. He knows my fiancee's personality. He might be in love with my fiancee, but she is not it love with him. She does love him as a close friend, but she is not in love with him nor has she ever been in love with him. She didn't care when he returned to his former girlfriend. Her male friend and I get along extremely well. He has accepted that she will never go back to him, that she is going to marry me. He has accepted that she is in love with me.

I actually feel sorry for him because he has to fear women's motives.

My fiancee's male friend knows my fiancee's sexual fantasies. She told them to him while they were in a dating relationship. He was supportive of her fantasies. He encouraged her to explore her sexuality. Other than going to a tropical island retreat where they were able to sunbathe nude and fuck constantly, probably for an audience, their schedules prevented them from allowing my fiancee to experience her sexual fantasies. But the important aspect is he knew she had sexual desires and fantasies and encouraged them. Most men would have repressed their wives/girlfriends sexual desires.

So, j, I'm happy that you are able to experience sexual euphoria with your husband's complete support. He is a confident, secure, and knowledgeable man. You're lucky to have him.

BTW, I'm committed to supporting every one of my fiancee sexual fantasies. They are all normal sexual fantasies. If opportunity arises, I'm protect her should she take a stranger back to his hotel room and give him her body for his sexual pleasure. I do know that my fiancee becomes incredibly turned on by men's reactions to her hot, naked body. She appreciates the power her naked body has over men. It is one of the many reasons she loves to get naked.

There are many reasons that I love my fiancee. I love her healthy and realistic view of sex. I love her sexual confidence. Most importantly, we're soulmates who have identical understanding of human sexuality.

[Sancho69]

My fiancee is in her sexual prime. I think she has been in her sexual prime since birth. She was incredibly horny last night. A few glasses of wine drives her libido through the roof. Within a half-hour of working her last night, I had considered calling her male friend to come over as sexual reinforcement. She could not get enough cock. She is often exceptionally horny, which is when she fantasizes about multiple men sex.

I knew I was in for a long night when she started talking about how turned on she became when she fucked her college boyfriends in front of their male roommates. She was on her second glass of wine and the food server hadn't yet brought us our orders when she told me she just wanted to go to my home, take off her clothes, and "relax" in my comfortable bed. I asked her what she was thinking. She told me that I couldn't give her what she was thinking. I was thinking that she was thinking that she wanted to be porn starred.

I have never, ever been with a woman who loves and wants sex as much as my fiancee. I'd bet that I could arbitrarily reach between her legs and 50% of the time her pussy would be drenched.

[stiv837]

One of my wife's fantasies is taking a long train trip and meeting an older well dressed man to have a one night stand with. I always thought that this was a strange fantasy , but to each his own I guess.