09-02-2021, 11:49 AM
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Easy and Predictable
Is it the consensus among women that men are sexually easy and predictable?
My fiancee has told me that men are easily predictable when it comes to sex. They love naughty and kinky women. Men are visual. They love looking at naked women. They love watching women performing sex acts. She's right. According to my fiancee, many men seen unable to comprehend that women are more naughty and kinky than men. From my experience, I'd guess that my fiancee is right in that women are more naughty and kinky than men. Do women agree? 
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09-03-2021, 12:16 PM
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I do think that because most men are more visually stimulated than women, they are easier to manipulate. The things men will do to see a nude or partially nude, ok let's face it, even a glimpse of cleavage, far outweigh the things women will do to see a nude or partially nude man. Quote:
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I use to work for a limo service and the bachelorette parties were much wilder passengers than the bachelor parties. Some men think nothing of going to a strip club a couple times a month with their buddies. Women might go to a "Chippendales" type show once a year or so when a friend is getting married so they've got all of that suppressed sexuality to unleash. Some of the male reviews even have female plants in the audience to "get the ball rolling" because they understand that some women are waiting for someone else to go first so they know it's ok. I don't know that women are more or less naughty than men. It's just that they "normally" behave so straight laced that when the do let loose, it seems more intense. It's like that person who always seems to be in a cheery mood then one day they're in a bad mood and everyone's like "What the fuck is his problem?"
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09-03-2021, 12:56 PM
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Hi kjs1961,
My fiancee referred to privacy when she told me that women are more kinky and naughty than men. Biologically, it makes sense. Men can cum within a minute and fall asleep. Women have to feel relaxing the right environments to become horny. Once sexual hormone control women, their actions are unpredictable. When my fiancee is looped and horny, she can become oblivious to her surroundings. I can think of two occasions where she wanted to fuck me on couches in sparse bars. She seemed unconcerned that there were a few customers remaining in bars.
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09-06-2021, 12:13 AM
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Men are not all the same of course. I've had men try to pick me up when I've been conservatively dressed in business attire. When I've responded to some dressed like that they are thrilled when they find out I'm pretty open when the clothes start to come off. But I can definitely say when I'm in the mood to be naughty and purposely flaunt my body a bit men to seem to really appreciate that too. My experience has been that men really enjoy being with me when I'm in a wild mood and being a real slut for them. I think I've met a lot of men who hadn't really had that experience until they met me. I think a lot of women are wild and kinky at heart but don't always have the chance to express it.
J
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09-06-2021, 10:29 AM
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Once was in Chicago. The company Kevin worked for at the time had an annual Christmas gala. It was a black tie affair. We lived in the suburbs so I came into town and checked into the hotel we had reserved a room at. The plan was for me to get ready and when Kevin got off work he'd come by and pick me up. I was sitting in the hotel bar, dressed in a very form fitting, sequined evening gown when a very good looking man approached and struck up a conversation. It soon became apparent he thought I was a call girl and just to amuse myself and pass the time until Kevin showed up, I let him keep thinking it. Finally he asked "how much" and because I've seen enough cop shows to know that the undercover vice cop's job is to get the other person to bring up money in exchange for services, I asked 'how much for what?" He asked for an "all nighter" and I laughed and said he couldn't afford an "all nighter". He told me to name my price so not knowing what the going rate for high end call girls was, I just threw out a price I thought for sure would send him on his way. He said OK. (turns out Gold Coast call girls in Chicago make a boat load of money!) Once I realized he wasn't BS'ing I sent Kevin a text asking him he'd mind me skipping the company party because an "opportunity" had come up. (He knew what I meant by opportunity. It was kind of our code) I told him don't wait up, I'd see him in the morning. The second time was at a black tie charity auction for an animal rescue group. There's a real castle in west Tennessee. The owners brought stone masons over from Europe to build it. There are no nails and the only metal used in the construction was the plumbing and wiring conduit. Everything else is wood or stone. Anyway... We had been invited down to Tennessee, mainly to see the castle but to also help out with the event (we knew the organizers). I was mingling and worked my way over to stand in line for the bar. A gorgeous black man, and I mean "made Weasley Snipes look like an albino" black was behind me and asked if I was part of the auction. I misunderstood at first and told him I wasn't officially affiliated with the rescue group but I was helping out. Then he clarified his question by asking me if I was "up" for auction. It suddenly dawned on me that he was offering to bid for a chance to have sex with me. (I'm not slow, it just came out of nowhere.) I politely informed him that I wasn't available for rent that night and went about ordering my drink. I told Kevin about it and he laughed, wondering how the auction would have gone down. I've taken money for sex in the past but only as a dare or a lark. I would never have sex with someone for money who I wouldn't have sex with for free. The money just makes it "naughty". My heart goes out to women who don't have the option. Last edited by kjs1961; 09-06-2021 at 10:31 AM.
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09-06-2021, 01:37 PM
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Based upon my experiences, too many women are socially intimidated by arbitrary norms from expressing their sexuality. Too many women are reluctant to reveal their sexuality to their husbands. Their husbands should be the people that they should be able to trust with their most protected secrets, yet they fear reprisal from their husbands if they were to tell them that they want to expand their sexual boundaries. My fiancee feared telling her ex-husband about her sexual desires. He was the definition of sexually naive. He ridiculed her because she asked him to cum on her tits. Sexual norms for women are continuing to evolve. I admire sexually confident women. Women derive more pleasure and more intensive euphoria from sex than men; hence, my fiancee's belief that men are sexually easy. Make them cum and they're happy. Medical science has proved that women who have a lot of sex well into their Golden Years live longer, are healthier, and happier; hence, ED meds. Many women portray an image of sexual virtue. Many men will ostensibly impute elevated status to sexually virtuous women. Men who categorize women, especially based upon nebulous sexual criteria, are either immature or naive or a combo of both. Secure men make no judgments about a woman's sexuality and sexual experiences. I can tell you darn near definitively that regardless of what men say in public, they love, desire, want, covet, etc. naughty, kinky and sexually experienced women. Men would much rather marry a porn star than a frigid woman. I can't tell you how many men I've known who've cried crocodile tears because their wives were not bedroom porn stars. There are a million reasons I love and admire my fiancee. I love her sexual honesty. She has told me many times that the only difference between other women and she is she's honest about her sexuality. My fiancee thinks that women unnecessarily deprived themselves of sexual euphoria by comporting themselves to dictates of society and men. Women are not naive. They're extremely perceptive, more so during sex. My fiancee learned a lot about sex during her promiscuous college years. She learned very quickly that men are visual and they love naughty and kinky women. I'm beneficiary of her vast sexual knowledge and skills. My fiancee endured years of sexual misery and deprivation during her marriage. She was extremely sexually experienced when she married her sexually naive husband. When I began dating her, she'd often initiate extremely graphic sexual conversation. She'd get me hard while eating dinner in restaurants. Later, I figured out what she was doing. She was assuring sexual compatibility. She told me that she would never again be involved with a man who was not sexually compatible with her. Last edited by Sancho69; 09-06-2021 at 01:53 PM.
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09-06-2021, 01:40 PM
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Hi kjs1961,
Playing role of prostitute is a very common and normal female fantasy. My fiancee has that fantasy. She had developed a plan to live that fantasy. She amended it when she found out that taking money in exchange for sex is illegal in CA. So it's now part of her stranger sex fantasy.
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09-06-2021, 02:00 PM
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To clarify what my fiancee meant: men love blowjobs, and they love to watch women sucking their cocks. My fiancee kept her boyfriends and FWB's very happy with blowjobs. She has learned that's it's easy for women to get wads out of men. Men want to cum. It's easy for women to make them cum. Men get turned on looking at naked women. My fiancee has never had a problem with nudity. She got naked and her boyfriends and FWB's were happy.
My fiancee's loves to suck cock. So the blowjob part was very easy for her.
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09-12-2021, 10:23 PM
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kjs1961, I met a guy in a bar once when I admit I was out looking to get laid. I was dressed pretty hot but not really slutty. He asked me up to his room and I went. Handsome man a lawyer. We had great sex and I was really pleased. When I'd gotten dressed and came back out of the restroom, He handed me an envelope with a lot of cash in it and asked for my number. I gave it to him and kept the money. He'd assumed I was a hooker. He still thinks I am and I still see him for "dates" sometimes. It feels kind of naughty, dating for dollars isn't so bad. lol
j
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