09-24-2022, 12:41 PM
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Ladies, where do you go when you need a man?
At times, my regular friends or my husband may not be available and I find that I really may need to have sex. Or I just may have the itch for a new cock to play with. For me, I've found the upscale hotel bar the perfect hunting ground. There are usually plenty of lonely men only too happy to meet a lady. Dance clubs, while easy to attract a lot of men, are simply too loud to be able to really have conversations in. For myself, I'm not against a quickie with a physically attractive man and readily admit I've had quite a few at dance clubs, but my preference is for more.
I'm personally attracted to intelligent, assertive men with a sense of humor. If able to carry on a conversation with a man, I know within 10 minutes whether I really want to get in bed with him or not. For me, it's so much more enjoyable to have sex with a man who you can really like. I'm fortunate and have permission to have sex with others, I don't have to cheat. So, ladies, how do you handle the situation, when you need a man? j 
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09-25-2022, 08:32 AM
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Best things about picking up men in a hotel bar is they're in transit. They're not sticking around. If I'm just looking to have and itch scratched, I don't go looking for a local who's going to be following me around like a lost puppy. If I really like the guy, I'll give him my contact info and tell him to contact me the next time he's going to be in town. Quote:
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09-25-2022, 02:41 PM
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Hi num1scamp,
Try 5 star resorts and elite country clubs. You'll have more men hitting on you at either of those venues than you can handle. 5 star resorts would be the better of the two if a dude has a room at the resort. I live very close to at least a half-dozen 5 star resorts. I have never heard of a newsworthy crime occurring at any. Good luck
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09-25-2022, 03:27 PM
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09-25-2022, 04:32 PM
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Hi num1scamp,
You're right about many country clubs. Some will allow entry for dining. As you know, my fiancee's former boyfriend is a physician. There are more than a few pricey restaurants very close to the medical complex where his office is located. He told me that one where physicians routinely meet after work have more women than men in it. They're obviously looking to find a physician to marry. He told me that his physician friends had many women to choose among for one-nighters.
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09-25-2022, 04:41 PM
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Hi num1scamp,
I keep forgetting to ask you this. When you're looking for sexual gratification, do you dress to arouse? Do you portray a subtle desire that reveals you're amenable to sexual gratification? My fiancee is always horny. What she's wearing will tell me how horny she is. There were many times I picked her up for dinner only for her to tell me that she wanted to go to my home and fuck. She's not subtle when she's extraordinarily horny.
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09-25-2022, 10:40 PM
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How I dress depends on the venue I go to. Hotels, usually a cocktail dress, hot but not slutty. Most the dresses I choose for that do however display my boobs pretty well. My husband says to dress to be undressed. Dance clubs depending on the clientele, it can be from pretty sexy to slutty. I do also sometimes go to swingers' clubs to meet single guys and couples too. There you have to really show off. A lot of times they have theme nights. I went to one several weeks ago where it was encouraged the ladies went topless. I did, but in this state when topless you have to wear pasties to cover your nipples. I did enjoy dancing with my tits freed, though.
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09-26-2022, 12:32 PM
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Women know what to wear to seize men's attention. They know how much they're revealing and to whom they're revealing it. The first time I saw my fiancee reveal her tits in public I was shocked and worried that we'd get in trouble. Later, she told me to relax. She knew what she was doing and when and how to do it. No one ever complained. I wonder why. Now it's a massive turn on. My fiancee's sexual confidence is erotic to watch. She knows that men love to check out naked women. She has expertise to give them what they want to see. She's told me she'd worry if men didn't check out her naked body. My fiancee has told me since we began dating exactly what you wrote. She'd never wear a top if she were able. Most men are enamored of women's tits. I'm a legs and ass dude. My fiancee has large natural tits. She knew that men zeroed in on her tits. Guys were mesmerized by them. Her former boyfriend loved her tits. Most if not all of her ex-boyfriends and FWBs loved her tits. I love her legs and ass. I can bury my face in her silky bush for hours.
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09-26-2022, 12:42 PM
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BTW, num1scamp, I live in CA. I private residences that aren't open to public view such as an uncovered window facing a street, people inside can be complete naked and legal. My fiancee rarely wears clothes in her home on hot days. Sometimes she'll wear panties or very shear see-though shorts. Her tits are rarely covered when she's inside of her home. Years ago I asked her if she was comfortable naked in her home. She told me she'll do what she wants inside of her home. She was right. It's her home.
She not reckless. She'll wear appropriate clothing if someone she doesn't know knocks on her door. I've seen her talking to her gardeners for at least ten minutes wearing a completely see-through top and completely see through shorts.
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09-27-2022, 04:28 PM
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Hi num1scamp,
Yesterday at about 4 pm I met my fiancee and one of her friends for dinner. They went clothes shopping at a mall and Nordstrom Rack. Her girlfriend is single. She's been divorced for 6 years. She's about mid-40s, probably a few years younger. She's good looking with an average body. She hasn't been in a stable relationship since her divorce. Not one of us had a single drink...until about 6 pm, after happy hour. Mostly they talked about women's styles, inflation, who had the best sales, etc. I was happy to be doing dinner with my fiancee. She drove so I knew I wasn't getting laid. She had to drive her friend home. My fiancee and I limited our drinking. Her friend was buzzed, but not drunk. I was in to a baseball game when I overheard them talking about sex. My fiancee's friend complained about lack of quality men. She bitched about dating Websites and apps that made it easy for men to get quick and easy sex. She complained that men didn't want/need relationships for sex. They could get in on Websites & hook-up apps. It was obvious that she had a lot of one night stands and was a willing booty call for men. It was obvious that she loved sex. She was pissed that guys either didn't know how to have mutually enjoyable sex or didn't want to be bothered by assuring she got off. She used the F-word repeatedly when she talked about men, mostly one night stand guys that expected her to suck their cocks but would not go down on her. One guy told her that eating pussy was gross. Eating pussy is as close to heaven on earth as a man can get. I always learn when I listen to my fiancee and her friends talk about sex. What I learned was my fiancee's friend wanted to find a man and have a relationship that would lead to marriage. That's what she said she wanted. She was more than willing do one nighters and be a booty call for men. Hence, num1scamp, I completely forgot about finding sex partners on Websites and apps designed for NSA hook-ups. Ashley Madison and Tinder are very popular for finding suitable partners. They would enable you to vet men before meeting them.
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