12-17-2009, 04:05 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
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Too Long ??
I always understood that many women are frustrated by 'wham bang thank you mam' men; however my current wife has proved me wrong.
During a frigid marriage, I met my previous wife and things were fantastic sexually. We eventually married and continued to enjoy (and further improve) our sexual relationship but unfortunately other difficulties resulted in our eventual divorce.
Sex with her used to last for a long time (at least one hour, frequently much longer). We were very keen on oral sex, often involving lengthy sessions in the 69 position. These sessions would be intermingled with bouts of fucking and other activities (whilst she continued to have frequent orgasms) and we would then be involved in more oral pleasuring until eventually I would climax, sometimes in her mouth, sometimes in her cunt, sometimes on her body.
Although she was not keen on anal sex, she was happy to include the use of fruit, wine, porn films, watersports, etc. in our sex sessions. The sex would occur in many different locations both inside and outside the house. [I remember once stopping on each step of the stairs; another time she suffered sever carpet burns, having been moved right across the room !]
She really did have the most amazing stamina, together with continuous orgasms and I must admit sometimes I was unable to keep going - whilst she was still able to have orgasms. [She had once had a lover who lasted the whole night; however I was never able to last quite that long !]
My current wife has a completely different attitude - she is very impatient for me to get an erection, put it in and then ejaculate soon after. I am lucky if the session lasts as much as 1/2 hour and the result is I end up even more frustrated than when I started. Therefore I have no real interest in having sex with her and in fact I now rely on watching this site to get my pleasure - I now find it very difficult to get an erection any other way !
I feel it's not always the male that is at fault in these failed sexual relationships - I really do feel that I was able to 'make love' to my previous wife whereas now all I have (very infrequently) is 'sex' with my current wife. [I would far rather have a lengthy session once a week than a quickie each day]
Have any other (male) users had this sort of experience ? Am I really wrong to think that it is better to 'make love' rather than just 'have sex' and that these sessions should normally last for a long time ?
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