Dealing with a loss of your fiance...

[horn19872009]

so we been dating for 3 years and she says no more... I dont want anything to do with you no more how do I cope with that?... Im so depressed and today I found out that she might be sending nude pics to other guys.... Im really heartbroken... any advice?

[babyduck]

Feel the loss, realize it wasn't meant to be, and move on...I know it sounds impossible but you can do it.

[Michal Wright]

It's never easy, but do yourself a favour don't try and be friends in the hope you'll win her back and although it sounds probably very unlikley at the moment you will meet someone else you love again so long as you don't let this experience make you too bitter.

It took me a year to get over my first really serious relationship after she left me, but I did meet an even more wonderful woman and we are married now and I have no regrets the other relationship didn't work out.

Give it time, don't shut yourself of and you will get over her, most importantly don't take the anger and mistrust you feel for your ex out on your future girlfriends or it's doubtful you'll ever have a good relationship again.

It's not time that's the healer liker some people say, rather it's new experiences that help to put things in perspective and help you move on.

[emersomefan]

I recently, 7 months ago, lost my wife of 10 years. It is an extremely difficult time. Give yourself the time to cope with the loss. My worst part is, as I try to move on, I still need to see her weekly to exchange the kids, and that reopens the healed wounds. You can and will getthrough it. I often look at survivinginfidelity . com to see that other people are going through similar heartache, and there are more productive suggestions there, than you may find here. Good luck.

[horn19872009]

thanks guys... keep them comming.... it wasnt her that was the bad guy in all this... it was me... and I regret what I done....

[horn19872009]

She wrote this about me today... tell me what chances you think we will get back together??

To My Dear Kevin...
you know we have a lot of ups and downs but that is a normal thing for couple that love each other...

but what u have done is a little to far and way to much... it kills me to say im leaving u since ur was my everything... i was happy with u till all this stuff has happened... idk if u like to break my heart over like 6 times or more... and im stupid enough to come back...

its only because i love u for now i have to let u go... god has been talking to me for the pass few months and so i finally able to hear him talk to me... you are not for me, not right now but maybe down the road we will bump possible...but idk if we will or will it happen and such...

for now i do love ur presence near me we have together for now u are going to be one of my closest friends and i just cant image life with out u being here for me like u have been all through these years... and you know as long i been with u everyone has there shares of insults to me that are about u... but after all that i still love u... and still to this day i still love u and i will always will... u place a special place in my heart...

no one can replace u not even god he made u and there is no one else like u...

as a person just yourself, your so much fun to be with and i hope we can still play games like we always did... u can be my brother for all i know, and ur still part of my family <333

but i have to say this im sorry for being a emotional wrecking ball, this is the final time this is going to bother me god has touched me and helped guide me through this and for now, its not time yet for either of us and soon... who knows it will be one day... but remember the good times my old nasty freak friend of mine :')

but please do me a favor...

dont be so depress no more change everything where u are ur old happy self again please... i dont want u to be sad no more so grow up now and start a new for yourself...

at the end kevin its still ok everything will be fine lets still walk this stuff out

love,
jUsTiNe