Husband changing his mind?

[rick181au]

Back in the 80’s myself and a few mates (seven in total) came up with the idea of advertising in a local sex paper that we were available as a group for women or couples who wanted gang bangs with any number of guys up to 7, we got a lot of replies from guys wanting to get their wife into the lifestyle, so a set of ground rules where we would have to speak to the woman to make sure she knew what was going on and was a willing participant, another ground rule was that the woman could change her mind at anytime and all playing would stop.
Most guys were over the moon (especially first timers) when their woman made the phone call and made a confirmed booking with us, but come the night it was quite often the husband that wanted to call things off when he seen his wife was having so much fun with the guys, we called it the “talk all week to get the wife to attend and then all night to get her to go home” syndrome.
We had some women turn up and then changed their mind and leave without doing anything, “usually with a very disappointed husband”, once a woman got started and the ice was broken very few wanted to stop and their was even a couple of women that when their husbands complained to much about their wife having so much fun (some actually called their wife a slut for doing exactly what they wanted them to do) and were forced to leave with their husband called back later and arranged a session without their husband being there or even knowing.
Any women out there have a problem with their husband after giving in to his request for her to go with other guys?

[kellyann12]

Studies have verified what you said. Woman are reluctant to cross the line and let go sexually especially with other partners but once they do...watch out. They love it and their husband often gets jealous especially when the woman becomes the agressor. My advice to other couples. If you are doing open swinging the female should not get to aggresive towards other men until her husband gains confidence that he is not going to lose you to another man. Let the men initiate and let them make the advances for awile. Once the husband gains confidence, he'll start pushing his partner to be more aggresive "suck his cock" " go get him" "Fuck him", etc!!!!!!!

My hubby and I believe that there are two types of sex. Sex for luv and sex for fun! No sex outside of our marriage ( unless mutually agreed upon) has kept us going for a long time.

[Smokey5760]

It is our experience that once wives get into it they love it. We have never encountered a husband that made his wife quit and we have been with some real shy wives but once they get a strange dick in them they love it and if the husband is ok they will really start fucking hard. My wife always wears no bra and a short skirt with no panties at our swing club. Once the guys know they can feel her up on the dance floor and that she will fuck them she can get all she wants any night because the guys know she will fuck. Lots of nights 6-8 guys will fuck her and I will fuck 3-4 women. She is also Bi and that helps if the other woman is bi-curious because it is much easyer to get that woman naked and once she gets that far she will fuck.