Big girls??
 

Okay, so I am brand spanking new to this site but I did a little looking around and I don't see many big girls posting. I know I am not the only one out there... ^_^

So guys (and gals!) what are your thoughts on big girls? BBWs...big girls...fat chicks...whatever you want to call us. Negative opinions are okay but please be nice as I am a big girl myself! ^_^ I'm not naive enough to think that the majority or anywhere close to that are going to find me attractive but I also think that there are lots of sexy big girls out there that guys are noticing but afraid to say they are attracted to because of peer pressure or whatever...

For me personally, I find lots of different shapes and sizes sexy. Sometimes it is their body or face, sometimes it is their personality or confidence. There are just loads of things that turn me on. :D

So I might be asking for punishment here but what are your thoughts? :cool:

~Gator

P.S. I think a comment on health is in order. Some fat people are healthy and some aren't...I find it is the same way with thinner people though I do understand that being bigger puts you more at risk for certain health problems...I'm not asking you to judge whether people *should* be fat or not but whether you would/could find a fat girl sexy....

First of all, I'd like to welcome you to the site gator. It's always a pleasure to see you post anywhere! The forum will soon see that.

Secondly..

Ohhhhh....Gator, you already know my opinion on this:D!absolutely, love love love big girls. Love the looks, the curves, the confidence, you name it!. A big girl is a girl! Can't nobody take that away from her. And Every woman deserves to be loved, cared and even lusted after;)

I also find something about a bbw that's insatiable. I can't put my finger on it. Not's to say, it's missing from other types of women, but it's definitely something added that isn't there before.

Never been with a BBW, but very much like to

You're also right about guys. My friend dated a big girl for awhile and got alot of heat for it.

Haha, why hello. ;) Thanks for the welcome. I *just* joined. I know you said in your other post that you were surprised to see me here. I found the site from looking at my husband's history on the computer. hehe I don't think he has joined yet but was just looking. ;) I'm very curious about the lifestyle and am enjoying finding out about what and who is out there.

But back to bbws...thank you so much for the reply and insight. It is great to know that there are people who appreciate a little or in my case...a lot extra. Before the adventures of this last year, I thought that I could never get into the lifestyle because who would want me? Seriously, I did and that kept me away for a long time. I think 850 and growing yahoo group members kind of puts that worry to rest lol though I know I still have to search a little bit more than some for those that are really going to appreciate all I have to offer. ;)

Thanks again and I hope more people chime in.

haha, I joined a few hours after you. I'm curious as well. Haven't done anything. I'm a young man. My 18th birthday was in nov, so I decided. What the hell not try to throw myself in there? I'm curious and any advice that could help would be appreciated from other couples and singles.

Gator, are you still in the curious mode? Did you take an initiate to meeting other people? Does your husband want to swing or does he get sexual enjoyment off yours?

The thought of "who want me?" crosses many minds of married women, not only bbw's. Unfortantely, it's a bad way of thinking and in some cases, it degrade the sexuality that a wife may have. As long as you have a man reassuring that you are beautiful, you should have nothing to worry about. But there's only so much a man can do! lol

bbw's
 

hi gator, i luv bbw's as long as they're as sexy as u! feel free to call me & chat sometime, u never know what can happen. luv your photos, post more plz. 815 608-0053

I like big girls BBw a lot and judging by the amount of attention my wife gets i'm not the only one ;)

Gator even though I am from Alabama, I love a hot BBW. As long as the attraction is there, it is so hot...

Oh my...
 

your pix are as hot as it gets...

Yes I am still curious though I think we are moving away from the thought of a threesome or me being with anyone else on a one-on-one basis unfortunately. :( I had a little fun with a long-time friend last Friday and there have been some shock waves from it. *sigh* My husband was fairly aware of what was going on but he has been thinking about it a lot since it happened and a number of jealousy/trust issues have come up. Strange thing is that he now wants to try messing around in more of a group setting! Perhaps with a couple and maybe one other person. We have a group of friends that we have been talking about skinny dipping with for a while so as soon as the weather warms up... :D

LOL Why thanks!! I did post some more photos...what do you think? ;)

~Gator