04-01-2011, 08:27 AM
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First Three way - Help!!
O.K., we have talked about it and have both agreed that it would be incredible to live out our fantasy of three way sex. To keep it fair, we agreed that we should do both a MMF and a MFF - both ways excite us!
We do have questions and concerns. Would it be best the first time with a stranger or someone you know? Should the first time be with another couple? We have heard about these swing parties, but know nothing about them. We just want to make our first experience exciting and memorable without any "surprises". We have a very strong relationship, and just talking about the possibility of a three way really turns us on. If we watch a porn flick, it is group sex of some sort. Wife is a little bi-curious, and has never been with another woman. She says she will let this play out if the situation ever comes up. We are looking for any comments, suggestions or opinions. Thanks in advance! 
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04-01-2011, 01:22 PM
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First Three way - Help!!
Here is my advice, since you asked. You should find a stranger online and screen him or her in a public place like a restaurant or mall before agreeing to play. If your intution tells you to back away, do it because you gut never lies. If you agree to play, you get the hotel room so you have control over when your guest arrives and leaves. The person you think is great can turn sour quickly and you want to be rid of them just as quickly, if necessary.
Do not play with someone you know for several reasons. First, your relationship will change forever. If you decide not to continue the relationship you will never be comfortable aroiunfd that person again, or they won't leave you alone or they might balckmail you with the what they know about you. Your three way life and you two way life should stay separated. A swing club is best to start. Just Google for one near you, or one in the next town. (You don't want to see your boss there!) You can just watch with no obligation. Often they have a hot tub, you can sink in there and have light conversation, and get to know people before you play. Maybe you will go to the club several times before you play which is fine. When you do play, and when you are done playing is entirely up to you. Those people will not know you and cannot intrude into your two way life. She has outstanding tits, so you will probably have more men that want to fuck her than you can shake your stick at. Good Luck, and write back to tell us all how it went. Dominus.
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04-01-2011, 01:48 PM
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Thanks - appreciate your insight. We will update as things progress.
We were sort of thinking that hooking up with a couple the first time might be best - this way we could do both the mff and mmf on the same occasion. But, the idea of a swing club is cool too.
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04-01-2011, 02:52 PM
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We actually went with a good friend for the whole comfort level thing, it worked out fine. You have to be very careful in your choice be it stranger or friend.
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04-02-2011, 09:40 AM
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So I guess it's time to start the interview process - resumes gladly accepted!
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04-02-2011, 11:36 AM
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Swing Club
An on site swing club is the best way. You do not have to do anything but if things go well you will. Get in the hot tube naked look in the group rooms. It may take a couple of visits but you will know if you want to continue.
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04-02-2011, 01:32 PM
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We would say that the couple idea is a good one... get both in the same night...however it rarely works that way... but there is always a second meeting.
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04-02-2011, 01:37 PM
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Wow! Very nice...
I would love to send you a resume
 but don't know if you're close enough for it to be practical. Where are you located?
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04-02-2011, 06:40 PM
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We are in the south/east Cleveland area. Anyone familiar with any decent clubs near us?
Thanks for all of the replies.
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