Need people's advice

[aramadillo]

There have been a lot of people who have sent me messages about the thread that I created in which I stated that I wanted to humiliate my wife. What I have not stated is how did we get to this stage.
There is no way that i would have posted that message 6 months ago. But then again I would have never joined this site, posted pics of my wife, or thought about humiliating her. When I took the vows of marriage I was fully prepared to fulfil every last one of them. I would have never thought about breaking them. So what has happened in the past 6 months? I caught my wife sexting a co-worker. If the sexting would have been for fun I might not have let it bother me so much. But it was clear that my wife was not just having fun. It was clear that she was looking for another husband. I approached her and of course she said it was a stupid thing to do and it would never happen again. Just to be sure, I did a slimy thing that I never thought i would do, I have her passwords to her email, all networking sites, and her found a way to track her cell phone. I can now she everything that she does online or on her cell. Lets just say when she told me she would never do it again, that was not true. I called her on it again and of course she said it stop. Thinking it is something that i am doing I have tried to get her to talk to me. Which is like trying to get blood from a stone. I even suggested that we should go for counselling. Which we did, and again she would not talk. I have recently discovered that all of her co-workers have seen her naked and some have had their dicks sucked and some have fucked her. This has been humiliating for me as I have hung out with some of her co-workers while the others have been fucking her. I was told that they invited me out to get me out of the house so she could have her fun. The reason i know this is because one of the co-workers has become a good friend and spilled everything.

Believe me I know this is a shitty thing to want to do to a wife but I guess in the end I am looking for revenge. Anyways not trying to condone my actions but feel that the whole story must be known. It is funny I entered marriage with the thought I would never cheat and always respect my wife. Now perhaps the marriage is over

So here is my question that I am looking for advice on .........Should I just end the marriage or how should I deal with the fact that I am married to a girl who is a slut for other just not me? She has told me that she wants our marriage to work and will do anything to make that happen.

[ncsurfnut]

Tit for tat..... If you still love each other and want to remain married tell her you are going to have sex with other women too. If she doesnt go for it......kick her to the curb.