Soft swing in SA

[vrugbaar1]

I would like to try it but dont know what to expect, I know my hubby also wants to do it.
Any advice?

[Batistajnr]

i know the feeling... U are both a bit scared..... Try having just 1 person in the room while u are having sex to see if u guys are comfortable......
with a body like urs i wouldnt mind watching....

[vrugbaar1]

Originally Posted by Batistajnr

i know the feeling... U are both a bit scared..... Try having just 1 person in the room while u are having sex to see if u guys are comfortable......
with a body like urs i wouldnt mind watching....

...are you applying for the possition?

[whynotus]

Hi there , we been in the lifestyle for 10 years,and would love to give advice,first of all , we strongly recommended you go to a swingers club,then from a "distance" you can then observance ,what people do and what its all about,and now for the big {lets call it eye opener} swinging {well in SA for sure} is not about sex,its about meeting wonderful people ,making friends and and mix with like minded people....having Adult fun the rest .....flirting , kissing touching ,sex everything ells thereafter is like a bonus.. you don't click with all, you not going to be friends with everybody!! yes there is a lot of bulshitters out there !!!.. but 90% of the people are very kind and 4real...after you been a few time's to the clubs ,and you feel comfortable and want to climb a other step ,do it together enjoy it together !!there are 3 big clubs in and around Gauteng,just blend in and you will be surprise what you see and find!!make your rules as you go ..talk a lot to each other, shift the rules to fit both!! you must "take and give" will explain that later ,do everything together, and do it because its fun ,if its not fun then don't do it,the lady leads the way ..let her pace you guys , it worth the wait believe me

[Mike Horn]

Originally Posted by vrugbaar1

...are you applying for the possition?

if u r taking applications, i wud luv to submit mine

[Saffa93]

Where in SA Vrugbaar?

[vrugbaar1]

Originally Posted by whynotus

Hi there , we been in the lifestyle for 10 years,and would love to give advice,first of all , we strongly recommended you go to a swingers club,then from a "distance" you can then observance ,what people do and what its all about,and now for the big {lets call it eye opener} swinging {well in SA for sure} is not about sex,its about meeting wonderful people ,making friends and and mix with like minded people....having Adult fun the rest .....flirting , kissing touching ,sex everything ells thereafter is like a bonus.. you don't click with all, you not going to be friends with everybody!! yes there is a lot of bulshitters out there !!!.. but 90% of the people are very kind and 4real...after you been a few time's to the clubs ,and you feel comfortable and want to climb a other step ,do it together enjoy it together !!there are 3 big clubs in and around Gauteng,just blend in and you will be surprise what you see and find!!make your rules as you go ..talk a lot to each other, shift the rules to fit both!! you must "take and give" will explain that later ,do everything together, and do it because its fun ,if its not fun then don't do it,the lady leads the way ..let her pace you guys , it worth the wait believe me

Thank you guys...

[slowvelder]

Before i got married a friend always invited me to join her at a swing club but i never did.Now i wished i had.......

[In Hard]

If anyone knows of a swingers club in the Lowveld, please let me know !!!

[slowvelder]

There isnt any official club that i know of ,
but certain circles invite you in and they swing between themselves/the group. Very private and if youre not part of the circle.....