You must have a very short memory. If any women on here would like to volunteer the number of times some guy has called you a whore, slut, cunt etc.
I heard guys call me a slut back when I was still a virgin.


True.


In what reality? Ask some women in your life (not counting your fiancé) if they've ever been called a slut or a whore by a man in a non-sexual situation.
I've had guys driving by while I'm out walking, roll down their windows and yell WHORE! at me.

kjs1961,

Very early in my relationship with the woman who's now my fiancee, she told me that she was a slut in college. Other college girls called her a slut, assuredly out of envy of her beautiful face and Playmate of the Year body that attracted a lot of male attention. I asked her to define slut. She couldn't give me a definitive answer.

I do not know the distinction between slut and whore. Those nouns are described in vague terms.

I have no clue of the definition of a whore. Can you explain the definition of whore? Is that noun defined by an arbitrary number of sexual partners a woman might have had? Would you define whore as promiscuous? Are whore and promiscuous synonyms or different constructs?

Your fallacy was comparing what boys and immature, young men of your youth called you to mature and self-confident men. It's common for boys and immature young men to hold untenable beliefs.

Perhaps you misunderstood me. Many boys and immature young men are wont to use that noun. Mature men rarely if ever do. In fact, the population of mature men who use that noun is statistically insignificant. I don't use it. None of my men friends use it. I cannot remember the last time I heard any mature man call a woman a whore.

Men will refer to a small population of women as gold diggers. Gold digger is euphemism for prostitute. Prostitutes exchange sex for consideration.

kjs1961, if you really believe what you've written in your post, it would be reasonable and logical to infer that you have a discriminatory construct that arbitrarily and pejoratively distinguishes men and women's sexuality. I do not use a sexual construct to define people. Who anyone has sex with and how many sexual partners anyone has had is none of my business.

Let's make sure you understand me: mature, self-confident men do not call women whores.

I've never asked my fiancee or any woman I dated how many men they had sex with. It's an inappropriate question to ask a woman. How many men my fiancee fucked before she met me is none of my business. She could have been a porn star. I still would have fallen in love with her.

I have listened to my fiancee reminisce about her promiscuous youth for which I'm thankful and beneficiary. Based only on her reminiscing, I'd guess she's fucked somewhere in the vicinity of 30 men. I have never asked her for a number. Numbers add up to nothing when the equation is sexual compatibility.

My interpretation of promiscuity is a phase men and women go through during which they explore their sexuality and what they like and don't like.

My fiancee made a horrendous mistake of marrying a man with whom she was sexually incompatible. Their sexual incompatibility exacerbated other marital problems. He was sexually inexperienced and naive, the complete opposite of my fiancee. He worsen their sexual incompatibility by refusing to let her teach him how to experience mind blowing sex.

My fiancee and I are perfectly sexually compatible.

I'd much rather have a sexually experienced woman who knows boundaries of her sexuality and what she likes and doesn't like than a woman who is sexually inexperienced and naive. Sexual experience teaches us boundaries of our sexuality and what we like and don't like.