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Old 12-02-2011, 07:14 AM
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My wife and I have been together for over 10 years. When we first met, we were both fairly young and had a lot of "vanilla" sex. We'd do it in every room of our house and when she had her period she'd give me daily blowjobs. It was a fun time!

When she was in high school, she was a party animal and definitely knew what she wanted. She won't tell me her exact "number" but has hinted it's over 50. She has told me other stories about boyfriends, specially one who pissed her off. The guy worked at the mall at a fast food place, so she took one of his good friends there so he could see them and then went home with the guy and fucked him. Another time she took his best friend out to the parking lot and gave him a BJ. We first "hooked up" thinking we were just going to have fun and not date, after our first date we decided NOT to have sex right away but we did make out a little. Now I know that less than 12 hours before she had fucked her ex and was probably still carrying his cum. I find all that pretty hot...

Anyway, both of us have been faithful since we started dating.

Over time, we've moved on with our lives and gotten busier with work, family, etc. so our sex life has slowed down a bit. We have always occasionally watched porn together and it went from MF to other things, nothing too crazy but MFM (especially DPs and Double BJs) seem to really turn her on. We've also added a anal to the mix and she likes it fairly often.

We started talking about adding another guy to the mix, she'd like to be the center of attention and I think she knows she's going to end the night tired but very well satisfied. She will talk about it when she is sober (not in great detail) but does acknowledge that she'd think it would be hot or enjoy it. When she's had a few to drink, she is ready to go. She wants me to "set it up" and just let her know a few days ahead of time so she can be ready.

Anyhow, we have tried a few times to set things up (mostly CL). A few times when travelling, all were flakes and/or people not her type. We had a guy lined up local, and invited him to our house on 3 separate occasions over almost a year period and he flaked (yeah I know too many times, but we actually knew a lot about him personally - his name in RL, job, etc and he made up good excuses). It's funny because if he would have showed she would have given him a great time. Obviously we broke off contact now.

Anyone have any pointers/tips/comments?
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Old 12-02-2011, 09:20 AM
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Setting things up with individual guy leaves a lot of uncertainty, and the risk of disappointment. Have you thought of visiting a swingers club. Some are "couples only", but others allow "quality" single guys on certain nights if MFM is what you are looking for. Visiting one of these clubs provides a night out in a sexy environment that may or may not end up being something more, either an immediate connection, or meeting and getting to know people you might connect with in the future.
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Old 12-03-2011, 07:18 AM
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Good advice.
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Old 12-03-2011, 07:20 AM
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Yeah, we have noticed that. I'm not sure if she'd be up for a club, too nervous b/c of a first time, etc. She is very pretty and always gets a lot of attention but also is self-conscious. That being said, she is not afraid to show off her goodies from time to time. I suppose the closest we've gotten is a strip poker game with one of her good friends and her BF at that time. Or the time that same friend was visiting us with another BF and one thing lead to another and he was sitting on the recliner, me on the couch and before I knew it I was watching him get a BJ and he was watching me.

Although your advice makes a lot of sense, just look at as "testing the waters" and not necessarily that anything would happen. Thanks.
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Old 12-05-2011, 08:02 AM
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Totally understand about self-conscious. For my wife that dropped away after a few drinks and dancing at the club, when a lot of flashing goodies by other ladies dancing led to some on her part as well. It was a lot of fun, even though we only hooked up with others on-site once during 5 or 6 visits. But whatever ... here's hoping that you two will find your own special way to make it happen and that you both will enjoy it when it does.
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Old 12-06-2011, 05:27 AM
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hey just wanted to write and tell you not to give up. read my message in the topic above this one, it's titled "need advice". You will see how long I've been working at this and after years it's finally going to happen. But I agree with you, we've played the e-mail game forever with some from CL and they never commited or if they said they would be here, they never showed. Finally found one there, well, they found me as I placed the ad and they are a perfect match and we have met them. So just don't let it go, keep at it, at least you've already gotten her to blow someone else already which should make it much easier to go further. If she needs a few drinks, make sure she gets it. Although most CL replies go no where or they are a bunch of crazies, I have to say there are some good things that happen, not everyone on CL is a bonehead. good luck and let us know how you make out.
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