12-20-2011, 11:16 AM
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Me too, Ive had the same thought process. I'd also like to swing with my lady. A fantasy is for us to be this sex-duo who, together - who quite lovingly, seduces others. I have thought the first step in getting things started would be to have a MFM 3some, which I find VERY hot. The idea of watching her in action is a different but an equally stimulating turn on as the fantasy of say a 4way sex romp with another hot couple - HOT ~ yep, i want it all & have even tried to get things setup for a MFM 3some but it is very difficult. Patience is key, and if your lady is smart & if she also knows your inclination, then it is even more difficult. My lady is well aware of my inclinations as we've spoken & communicated openly about these possibilties - unfortunately she is reluctant (though admittedly curious) but I'm not pushy, however if I could setup a bulletproof plan, I confess, I'd do it. In the meantime I love these DMW blogs - threads like these get my blood pumping!
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12-20-2011, 11:33 AM
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setting wife up
yes i set my wife up with a guy without her knowing. the guy hit on her at the bar. and she introduced me to him. after afew drinks and flirting,she eneded up sucking him and let him fuck her. funny thing took her a few days to figure it was a setup. i have done this 4 differant times in 9 yrs.
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12-22-2011, 07:44 AM
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I did it once with a woman. Cpl. of lezbians were playing pool next to us & i noticed the one kept staring at her so when my wife went to the restroom i motioned to the woman with my eyes to go with her. When my wife came back she had a wierd look on her face. Then proceeded to tell her friend & i that that lady just hit on her eew gross! Then when we got home no sooner were in the door & she tore off my cloths,pushed me to the floor & fucked me very fast & hard. So i think it secretly turned her on.. Thu she denied it later when i asked if she liked it when she hit on her..
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12-23-2011, 12:44 PM
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I just took the first step of getting my partner to fuck another guy, two weeks ago, with a "set-up".
We've fantasized about it in bed, but the next day she gets cold feet, says she was only role playing. I knew this was just a "good girl" cover, and that if the right situation presented itself, she'd be on this in a heartbeat. The "right" situation meant meeting a stranger that she didn't know, having just enough cocktails to claim she wasn't "responsible" for what happened, it would be the booze. I decided to put this to the test. She recently expressed the desire to flirt like she used to, saying it made her feel sexy, which she hasn't felt in a long time. We decided she would go to a bar out of town and see if anyone flirted with her. She asked how far could she go, and I said that if it helped make her feel sexier for me, she could go as far as she wanted to. She actually role-played a scenario with a strange guy, how it might go down. Unknown to her, I decided I was going to "stack the deck" by setting her up. I ran an ad in craigslist, got quite a few replies, and picked what I thought was the perfect candidate. After some e-mails discussing things, I had him go to a place we frequent, where we often strike up conversations with total strangers and have a great time. I managed to make this look like a totally random thing, just striking up a conversation with a guy sitting next to us. He handled things perfectly, she has NO idea we set this up. They really hit it off, had a lot to talk about, she even exchanged business cards with him after I left them alone for about 10 mins while I was off talking to a friend. She jokingly refers to him now as her "boyfriend', and said that any woman would be attracted to him (so obviously, SHE is attracted to him!), though she has never suggested that she wants him to be the guy who flirts with her. The "meeting' when way better than I had ever hoped it would, because I picked just the right guy; can keep the secret, and managed to make a good connection with her. He had to go away for a trip home for the holidays, but he and I have already worked out them "running into each other" when he gets back, at the place I'm going to take her to go "flirting". She won't suspect a thing, because SHE told him he had to go check the place out some night when he gets back, and that's what he'll tell her he's doing there. She's going to be open to flirting as it is, and having already been attracted to him, she's going to feel even more receptive to him, rather tha worry about strange men aproaching her. He knows the "pick up" scenario she role-played with me, and is going to follow it to a "T", and if she allows the fantasy to flow, she'll be open to some touching, and making out, possibly even more. I am positive we are going to have a threesome that night, no doubt about it.... and she will never suspect a thing, I am positive. He has a legit reason to have a hotel room on weekends; she'll realize that he knows she has a boyfriend, and though he should end up making out with her at the "flirting' bar (or maybe even get in some good fondling!), she won't worry about being tested by being alone with him in a hotel room. I'll show up at the bar, he'll invite us back to his room (to get out of the noisy, crowded bar and have some free cocktails at the room) and she won't think he'll try anything with me there. She'll feel 'safe' and not have her resolve tested. Once we're there and relaxed, I'll go to the bathroom and take my sweet time. He'll try to pick up the making out "behind my back". She'll feel the naughtiness of being attracted to him, and like having kissed him before at the bar, plus the naughtiness of making out with him with me just a few feet away. So she'll very likely go along with it and make out with him while I'm in there. Hopefully she loses track of the time after a few minutes and I get to "catch" them and let her know I'm okay with it. So yes, I have tried the set-up, to a point, and it already worked better than I hoped!
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12-28-2011, 04:35 PM
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love to set my wife up
i have been wanting to set her up but can not find anyone to meet to discuss how we can get it done i thought new years eve would be ideal to get it done but nothing yet.if anyone has any ideas please let me know.needs to be somewhere within 2/3 hrs of williamsport,pa please contact me want to make this happen jon
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01-06-2012, 12:01 AM
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Well, our guy is back from Christmas vacation, and this should be a go for this Sat. night, I talked to her a couple of nights ago about going out and doing the flirting thing this weekend, and she agreed. I should be meeting with our guy tomorrow night to go over any thoughts.
I'm going to surprise her with a sexy undies set and nylons, and hope to pick out something for her to wear that she'll enjoy me doing. I'll let everyone know after Sat. night if this came off or not.
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01-13-2012, 11:10 PM
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Nice to meet you, by the way.
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