10-18-2015, 04:11 PM
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How to tell my wife to show her cleavage & breast
I have a sexy wife but she is very conservative & shy. How can I convince her to be more open & show her body
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10-20-2015, 03:41 AM
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Be very patient and you'll make progress. My wife was also very conservative for many years and told me she'd never ever go topless. After 7 years of marriage she went topless for the first time. The setting was very important, we were in a holiday spot where she was pretty sure we wouldn't know anyone. I convinced her to allow me to pretend to snatch her bikini top off while she was tanning. I snatched her top off and she immediately covered up with her hands and pretended to be cross. I threw her top a few metres away. Before she could get up to fetch it a life guard ran up and snatched it away. He stood waiting for her to get her top. She kept her hand covering her tits and pretending to be upset. He came over and gave it back to her. She put it back on.....but secretly loved the whole thing, she was so turned on by the exposure we had great sex. The next day she ended up going topless and chatting to the life guard while topless. Many more years later she agreed to go to a nude beach, very reluctantly, but after her first experience, loved being nude too. Now we go to a nude beach every year for a few days. We've been married for 24 years now.....just be patient and pour out compliments and love all the time. Look after her and she will look after you.
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12-08-2015, 04:56 AM
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yes I have to agree, be patient and it will happen. My wife was the same way. Prim and proper and dressed conservatively. I mean she wouldn't even allow her cleavage to be seen in public. And then it was like an overnight thing, slowly building up within her, just waiting to be released. She started opening up and showing nice cleavage. I loved her 42ds, they always turned me on and she knew it. I was always complementing her breast and knew it turned her on. But I didn't push it. Soon I was able to actually rub her breast in public and she didn't resist. It didn't matter where we were, I was rubbing her breast. Loved how large her nipples would get, pushing against her blouse. Others had to notice them and she paid no attention to the scene she was causing.
I never could at the time get her to go braless though. She claimed she needed the support for her 42ds. Until??? We were in my truck going to eat at a nice restaurant. I hadn't paid any attention to how she was dressed. I did like that tight white blouse she was wearing though. Her breast were literally bulging to get out. She had a few buttons unbuttoned and was showing some marvelous cleavage. I still hadn't noticed though. On the drive there I reached over and cupped her breast. Reaching inside her blouse I found out she was braless. Oh hell yes. She would lean back against the seat, close her eyes as I rubbed her breast. Those nipples of hers got large and so hard. I unbuttoned a few more buttons and really tweaked her nipples. Her breast were ready to fall out of that sexy white blouse she was wearing. It was like a brand new world had opened up. She was not resisting and actually loved it. We get to the restaurant and she doesn't cover herself up. Needless to say we got excellent service. We would actually have a great time once we got home or a place where we could be alone. Lately when we go out away from our house and city, she'll wear a short skirt and crotch less panty hose and braless, that's when things tend to get out of hand. But its all worth it. Yep, it just takes patience and time. We're still a pair after 25 years and going strong at it. She hasn't gone topless in public per see, but with what she is showing off she might as well be. For me there's nothing better than standing behind her sucking on her neck and fingering her in public when given the chance regardless where we are. She's game more often than not. I just love exposing her breast and her ass to whoever is around. I love getting her nipples rock hard and large for others to see and admire her. It was well worth the time and patience. She does hate it when I give her a ride to work and tweak her nipples though.
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12-08-2015, 02:14 PM
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Agree with the others. Be patient, don't push, be grateful for small steps.
Maybe a dress that shows a teeny bit of cleavage for a special night when you are out of town. Or just opening one more button than she is used to. The fact that guys won't leer or women won't scowl (since, relatively speaking, she is still dressed conservatively) will help her to get over her initial nervousness. Meanwhile, you let her know how much it turns YOU on. Remember, most girls from hyper-conservative backgrounds somehow believe everyone will think them to be a slut if they show too much skin. By letting her push that line, oh so slowly, she will eventually realize that that simply isn't the case. Once she has gotten used to it, you can tease her (privately and intimately) about being a naughty girl. Somewhere, down deep, there is a good chance that she will be aroused by her "scandalous" behavior. Whatever you do, don't push. Just encourage her in every small step that she takes. By the way, for whatever it's worth, when my wife was at those early, early stages, she did not like the phrase "bad girl" or being "bad". It was like flipping a switch off with her. She told me one day, "I'm not being bad, just a little naughty." Somehow, in her mind, this was an important distinction. Today, several years later, she still differentiates between the two, though she enjoys being "bad" sometimes. For her, "naughty" means teasing and flashing (or maybe playing with a girl). Being "bad" means some lucky guy is going to get fucked or blown. Go slow. Listen carefully. And you will begin to find the path for your wife, too.
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12-08-2015, 11:17 PM
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Patience
Patience is key, he says after 13 years of it.
The distinction in terminology is also critical and all women do not respond the same way to the same words. There are definitely better words than others. "Naughty" is much better than "bad" or "dirty". "Slut" is better than "whore" or "bitch". There is a whole psychology behind how humans react to certain words. It's worth the Google search.
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