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Old 02-25-2018, 06:26 PM
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I like being shared. I like it when my husband introduces me to a likely partner and I like it when I meet someone during the course of a normal housewife day. My husband enjoys my extramarital exploits as much as I do. He was the one who first ventured sharing as a solution to my boredom with sex and my overwhelming sense of having no sex appeal. I was wanting sex less and less. I was unhappy with how i looked. I was not trying to be sexy, neither for my self or for my husband. I would see sexy people and feel a pang of envy. I saw a woman in Whole Foods, one day, who was shopping with a handsome man, and she looked so happy. PANG! of envy. My husband was daily inquiring what did I want, what did I need. I knew it was something more than being mom, wife, house keeper, cook. I loved being all of that, but i was wanting something more.

One day, kids in school, husband at work, I went for a walk. I really needed the walk, being a little pudgy. I was not really making a big effort and when I got down to the waterfront, I parked my butt on a bench and watched the pelicans, seagulls and boats sailing about. There were several young military men walking about in their gym shorts and tee shirts. They had finished a 10K run through the bay front. One, a rosy cheeked redhead about 19 or 20, came over to my bench and sat down. We began talking. He told me he was from Milton IA and he was going to school to be a Navy radar operator/traffic controller. He talked to me long after all of the other sailors had left. He was working up courage to ask me out. I could see it and I was so flattered. I had to be almost twice his age. I was 36 at the time. He finally asked me to a dinner and a movie. I felt thrilled and I really wanted to say yes. But I said I was married and I couldn't. I said I thought he was attractive and I would go out if I could. He said he understood and thanked me for talking to him. He then gave me a sales receipt with his number written on it. He said if I ever wanted to just hang out and talk again, he would love to do it. That encounter made my whole day.

When my husband got home, we had the usual routine. Talk about the day in the kitchen while i began supper. The kids trickled in from school and I yelled for them to start their homework. We had an almost family dinner, oldest daughter took her plate upstairs to eat while she "did her homework". The homework was most likely
a call to her boyfriend. Then clean up and television. Instead of sitting on the couch like I normally did, I cuddled with my husband in the big chair. My husband was in a really loving happy mood, which was not common lately.

When we were in bed, my husband asked me what got into me. I said what do you mean. He said you are so bouncy, cheery and lovable tonight, not so with drawn. I was surprised that he thought I was with drawn. We talked. He told me that I almost never talked to him except about the kids, the house, school, etc. I was kind, but I was kind of withdrawn and uncommunicative on a personal level. I had not responded, in a positive way, to any compliments in a long time. I said you don't give me any. He said I gave up. I said we have not had sex in a long time. He said I gave up. I had said no so many times, he could not bear to ask me again and hear another no. He did want to know why I was so different tonight. I asked if I had been so unpleasant and he said not unpleasant, just not into making love, cuddling, intimate conversations. I had not told him I love him in over a year. So, he asked, what's different.

Of course, I knew the reason was I had been flattered and excited by the attention of the young sailor. So, I told my husband what had happened and how it made me feel. I told him how I would have loved to gone out with him and that I had told him so. This confession took my husband by surprise, but he was not angry. We talked for a couple of hours. I told him how felt like I was withering, fading, no longer sexy. I was getting chubby, if not fat. I felt lonely, some times, especially when I would see a really happy woman with her man. I could see she felt sexy and I wanted to feel like that again. I just could not see a way to do so. I was so full of self pity.

My husband did not blame me and himself for the situation i felt I was in. He said it was just the way things work out. It was just the way life has a way of falling into routines and everything becomes common place and no longer exciting. He suggested the place to start changing things was getting back into shape. He said we could both need a bit of a tune up. He said we both need to exercise. and do it together. He said I needed to buy a sexy outfit and make sure it is too small. That way, I have a specific goal to work towards.

That night, we had sex and it was great. I must admit, I was fantasizing about the redhead sailor the whole time. A couple nights later, while talking in bed again, I told my husband i fantasized about the sailor when we had sex. He said that was cool. He sometimes fantasized about Halle Berry. So that night, the fantasy became verbal. We talked about how exciting it would be if Red was in bed with me and he was doing the things my husband was doing to me. I had a huge orgasm. It was like when I was first dating and I had sex with a boy that knew what he was doing. You know, that all worked up, hot hot hot, need to cum. And when you did, it was so so wonderful.

My husband got me exercising and walking every day. Soon i fit into a sexy dress that I had bought. I got a new hair style and started using make up again. My husband got me going to a spa. Mud and cucumbers and all that. I felt sexier and sexier. Sex with my husband was more often and I was having really nice orgasms. One day he said he had a surprise for me. It was tickets for a nude cruise. I did not think I was ready for that, but we went and it was awesome. I loved looking and being looked at. There were a lot of older couples and quite a few our age. I had to admit i was checking out cocks. I kept looking for some one having a boner. After that, my husband took me to a nude beach and then to a sauna that had "naked fridays". I was really comfortable being nude in public and I liked it when a man really noticed me. It made me feel sexy and horny.

The sex play with "Red" continued in our lovemaking. My husband said i really would get hot when he talked about me having sex with Red. I said it did make my hot as hell. He asked me if I ever thought about having sex with for real. I admitted I had often thought about it. He asked my why I have not done it. I told him I did not want anything to happen that would harm our relationship. He asked if I knew that nothing adverse would happen to our relationship if I had sex with Red, would I be interested in doing so. I said yes. I said i would need assurances that it would not become a problem. My husband said he thought a way to ensure that I would remain feeling sexy and want to continue to have a lot of sex would be for me to have sex with another man, occasionally. He said that the idea of me having sex with another man has started turning him on. We agreed that I should have sex with some one as soon as practical.

I told my husband Red had given me his number. My husband said call him. It was about 10 at night and it had been months since i had received the number. I wasn't sure he would remember me. I called him. He said he was excited to hear from me and yes he would love to take me out. after the phone call was over, I looked at my husband and told him I really, really loved him at that moment.

Red, whose name was really Jeff and I would have known that if I had looked at the name and number on the slip of paper he gave me, made plans for Sunday night. I was worried that if I went to the movie with Jeff, I might run into my daughter who would be out with her boyfriend. Sunday night she has to be home by nine, because school is the next day. So, I left home about 7 to pick up Jeff, telling the two younger kids I was going to see a friend and I would be back later and not to worry. Jeff and I went to a movie and had pizza afterwards. I took him back to base and he wanted to kiss. I said ok, i would like that. I felt like a school girl. It was a very nice kiss. And then we kissed again and again. Some time during those kisses, he had slipped his hand into my bra and I was just melting. But I knew I wasn't ready yet, so I said good night and we made plans for another date. We went out three more times before we had sex. I got a motel room and instead of going to the movie, we went to the motel. the sex was wonderful. I had to teach him how to please me and he followed instruction beautifully. I was now committed to having extramarital sex. I knew this was something that I wanted to do and often. due to space requirements i have to finish this in a part II
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Old 02-25-2018, 07:16 PM
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When i got home after my first date, my husband was surprised i was home so soon. I told him how the date went, the movie, the pizza, the first kiss, then the other kisses and the hand in the bra. By the time i got to the part about the hand in the bra, my husband had stripped me and was eating my pussy like a madman. I had huge orgasm. It was incredible. I got on my husbands hard cock and rode him for a long time. He came twice, something he had not done in ages. The night i got the hotel room, I did not get back home until 3am. My husband was waiting expectantly. He did not know that i had decided to have sex that night with Jeff. we went to bed. I had taken my husband's cock in my hand and was feeling it get nice and hard, when my husband asked what happened tonight. I said I fucked him. My husband's cock erupted like a volcano, he came so hard. I got on his cock and rode him for an hour. he did not cum again, but his cock stayed hard as a rock. My husband was really, really excited by my having sex with Jeff. I knew every thing was going to be alright.

I dated Jeff for 5 months. It was wonderful having a man half my age so into me. I loved his youth and stamina and his sheer joy of having sex with me. I thought i was being careful in how i was going out with Jeff. I wasn't. One night Jeff and I ended up in the same movie as my daughter and her date. She saw him kiss me in the dark. She was shocked and scared. When I got home, my husband and I had to reassure her that everything between us was alright. a couple of years later, when we were talking about a relationship she was in, she told me she thought her Dad was really cool. She liked how he was willing to do what it takes to have a happy marriage. She asked a lot of questions over the next couple of years about lifestyle her dad and I have. when she married, she married an open minded man who was willing to share her when she needed/wanted more adventure in sex. she is very happy.

Jeff graduated from school and went off to the fleet. I have never seen him again. I pick up a sailor or two every now and then when the desire takes a hold of me. my husband still loves that i do. I have expanded my sexuality to include women. I did not know i was bi until I was hit on by a woman when i was at a nude beach by myself, one day. when we went to her motel, she said she would be gentle since it was my first time. she had a great sense of humor. through her, I learned it is possible to have an immense orgasm while laughing hysterically. I felt my husband would like to enjoy other women and i wanted him to do so, so i got us into swapping. he loves it. We swap at least once a month. I have sex with some one other than my husband almost every week.

why do i love being shared? well, being shared makes me feel sexy and desired. It is that simple. I love the sex, but I need to feel desired. I like being desired by so many.

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Old 02-25-2018, 09:55 PM
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Wonderful Story...Does your husband like to watch you getting fucked?
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Old 02-28-2018, 06:58 AM
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Great story... did have fucking with young boy ....
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Old 03-03-2018, 04:53 PM
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Of course it's so nice to be desired. I feel it's a compliment if I dance with a man and I feel his cock get hard. I also feel it empowering when I feel a man's cock swell in my mouth or my hand knowing he wants me. I love pleasing men, and I love the way it makes me feel.

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Old 07-08-2018, 06:38 PM
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Wonderful Story...Does your husband like to watch you getting fucked?
yes he does. the first time he watched me, he cried. it was after i had fucked the guy and the guy had left the motel room. i asked my husband why he was crying and he said something that really moved me. he said "it was so beautiful, absolutely beautiful. i feel so privileged."

that was an unexpected, i didn't know what to expect, but that was so unexpected. i started crying.

from then on, i try as often as possible to have my husband to watch. some men love it. they really get into fucking a woman while her husband watches. most do not. after i come back from a date, i ride my husbands cock and tell him everything that happened. hearing about men fucking me really turns my husband on. sometimes he will come more than once during the telling of my date story.

recently, he asked me in what new things am i interested, since i have been exploring extramarital sex and have started watching porn on the net. i told him i was interested in men having sex with men. i love watching that on porn sites. he was very surprised. i asked him, straight out if he ever has sucked a cock because i think that is really hot. he admitted to doing it when he was 12 or 13. so, i asked him if he would think about doing it again, so i can watch it for real. he said that he has never thought of it again once he started dating girls. i asked him to think about it and maybe it could happen during a threesome. he said he would think about it. i am hoping.

i went out with a man from Saudi Arabia. he is here training with the Navy. i let him pick me up at the commissary. we arranged a date in the checkout line. he is absolutely gorgeous. my first foreigner! he has a nice cock, really pretty. he was very vigorous. il had several nice orgasms. he said he is a secular muslim. i did not know there was such a thing. he said things like swapping were really big in saudi arabia.

i will try to be a little more active on this site, but i am busy, you know, three kids, a house to take care of, meals to cook, husband to take care of and men to pick up.
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Old 07-08-2018, 08:55 PM
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yes he does. the first time he watched me, he cried. it was after i had fucked the guy and the guy had left the motel room. i asked my husband why he was crying and he said something that really moved me. he said "it was so beautiful, absolutely beautiful. i feel so privileged."

that was an unexpected, i didn't know what to expect, but that was so unexpected. i started crying.

from then on, i try as often as possible to have my husband to watch. some men love it. they really get into fucking a woman while her husband watches. most do not. after i come back from a date, i ride my husbands cock and tell him everything that happened. hearing about men fucking me really turns my husband on. sometimes he will come more than once during the telling of my date story.

recently, he asked me in what new things am i interested, since i have been exploring extramarital sex and have started watching porn on the net. i told him i was interested in men having sex with men. i love watching that on porn sites. he was very surprised. i asked him, straight out if he ever has sucked a cock because i think that is really hot. he admitted to doing it when he was 12 or 13. so, i asked him if he would think about doing it again, so i can watch it for real. he said that he has never thought of it again once he started dating girls. i asked him to think about it and maybe it could happen during a threesome. he said he would think about it. i am hoping.

i went out with a man from Saudi Arabia. he is here training with the Navy. i let him pick me up at the commissary. we arranged a date in the checkout line. he is absolutely gorgeous. my first foreigner! he has a nice cock, really pretty. he was very vigorous. il had several nice orgasms. he said he is a secular muslim. i did not know there was such a thing. he said things like swapping were really big in saudi arabia.

i will try to be a little more active on this site, but i am busy, you know, three kids, a house to take care of, meals to cook, husband to take care of and men to pick up.

Hot update . Looking forward to more when you have time
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Old 07-09-2018, 06:10 PM
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one of the draw backs, of being sexually adventurous, is keeping it a secret from family and friends. after i started dating Jeff, i told my mother what i was doing. i felt it necessary. she is my confidant and i tell everything to her. i always have, even when i was a teenager. she is wise and i trust her judgement. i didn't feel right not telling her something so important that was happening in my life.

i told mom everything. when i was done, she asked me if i was happy. i said yes and she said, "isn't that the important thing?" and she said it was wonderful that my husband was so agreeable to what i was doing. it must be a blessing.

and then she said something that floored me. she said what i was doing is so much better, more humane than what happened with her. of course i asked what happened. mom told me how she got to a similar place in her life when she had reached her thirties. she was unhappy and felt that dad was taking her for granted. almost no sex (dad was 14 years older than mom and must felt past his sexual peak). she met a man at her job and he paid attention to her. mom was swept off her feet. she had a 6 year affair with him. it stopped because the secrecy and the hiding got to be too much and wore her out over the time of the affair. she hated to stop it, but did it any way. she told me she wished she had had what Phil (hubby) and i have. she said she was happy for me. so, not only do i tell my husband everything, i tell mom too. she loves to hear my tales while we kill a bottle of moscato. it is great being so open with my mom.

my second oldest daughter a university student. so she is not living at home. sometimes she pops in when she has some free time. the university is in the next county, about 25 miles away, so she pops in pretty often. usually on the weekends. one wednesday, she decided to come home and do her laundry. as it happened, i was having sex that day with a guy that i picked up while i was shopping. we had finished and he was about to leave when she walked in. it would have been less dramatic if i was not wearing a teddy when she came in the kitchen and and if i was not kissing him. it didn't help that the teddy was see through and he was squeezing a breast at the time. that feel he was copping and the kiss was ended with a very loud MOM!! he valiantly said i gotta go and fled out the front door. my daughter was speechless. her mouth was doing that fish thing and she flopped down at the kitchen table. i went and grabbed a robe and put it on.

of course she wanted to know how long "this had been going on". i told her i had just met him today. MOM!! i told her not to be such a baby. i am 46 and still young and he was not the first. MOM!! i told her that i was going to have more as well. MOM!! she said what if it had been dad coming in the door. i told her i would have told him to get undressed and join in. MOM!

we had a long talk. she did not believe a thing i said. i am going to ask daddy!! go right ahead! she did, when he came home from work. they had a long talk. now you would think an 18 year old would have an open mind. but, let me tell you, their minds can closed like a bank vault on sunday. i guess finding out that your parents are sexual beings and that they are having the times of their lives is a bit traumatic. she now calls home before popping in.

i think she is getting more accepting. she asked me if i was one of those "hotwives". i told her that i consider myself still hot and i am a wife, but i don't fit the internet description. i said that we are more of the threesome/swapping types. but, i can enjoy a "pick me up" when the opportunity presents itself. MOM!! she told me that she could never do what i am doing. she is still programmed by the "romantic" culture. just to agitate her, i told her i had a date for the afternoon on friday. MOM!!

and i did have a date and it went very well.

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Old 07-09-2018, 07:22 PM
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I think it wonderful that you can have such a great response from your own Mother and this has been good for you and your other relationships i would think even between you and your Husband. This in turn probably went a long way in you being so relaxed and being able to handle your Daughter.

Im curious of what, if anything you Mother ever said to your Husband about allowing you your freedom?
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I think it wonderful that you can have such a great response from your own Mother and this has been good for you and your other relationships i would think even between you and your Husband. This in turn probably went a long way in you being so relaxed and being able to handle your Daughter.

Im curious of what, if anything you Mother ever said to your Husband about allowing you your freedom?
oh, yes, my mom had a talk with my husband. she wanted to know all about his feelings concerning what we were doing. she wanted him to know that he should not take away my freedom, if he gets scared about the power of the sexuality he has unleased, etc. she wanted to know if he could handle what was happening. she wanted him to know she approved of what we were doing and said she wished her husband had not been so clueless. i did notice she did not mention the affair she had. she told my husband if he needed to talk, all he had to do was phone her. i got the feeling that my mom has done more than that six year affair. i am going to try to get everything out of her. i want to know!

my daughter has not said any thing else about our extramarital adventures. but she does not act up tight about it. i think she is uncomfortable knowing her parents are sex fiends. heeheehee

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