New Voyerism

[adder]

Wow, my life has changed dramatically in the past 2 months. Like many older men, I had a bout of urinary retention. I couldn't pee and had to go to the emergency room for a catheter. I wore that catheter for a week until I could get an appointment with a urologist. Once there, they determined that I had a urinary tract infection, and put another catheter in for 3 weeks while I took antibiotics.

Eventually I had a prostate procedure which is where I am now.

Of course with a catheter, sex for me is out of the question, but Shy Exhibitionist Wife carries on without me. And here is where it gets interesting. Because it was not a good idea for me to have an erection with a cath in, she masturbated alone, but videod herself doing it. With all the hundreds of vids we have of her masturbating, I had of course watched her stroke while I filmed her. But suddenly I was no longer there.

So, later I got to watch her videos as a "fly on the wall". Boy, it was quite arousing to see her alone and touching herself. Totally different from me being there and knowing just what went on. And she told me afterwards about which fantasies she used. Once again, fascinating because she was alone.

We still have a least 2 weeks of me being out of pocket, so there will be several more videos for me to savor.

In the face of all this discomfort and trauma, it's been wonderful to see her in a new light, so to speak.

Any other older men who have had this experience?

[num1scamp]

Yes, my husband had this happen once. The hospital put a Foley catheter in him. It was two weeks until he saw his urologist. His urologist told him to never let anyone do that to him again. They removed it and the nurse taught him how to catheterize himself. It was about a month before things returned to normal. But once the Foley was out he could have sex again. His urologist told him he'd had an operation once and when he came to, he was catherized himself. He said he immediately removed it himself and had no problems from it.

j

[adder]

In addition to the Foley catheter, I was given what is called an intermittent catheter designed for a one time use.

They were FAR preferable to the Foley, believe me. Still a nuisance though.

[kjs1961]

Have her act as if she doesn't know the camera's there.
You could really get the "fly on the wall" experience that way.

[adder]

She did for several videos and I enjoyed that, but she also had fun turning to the camera and letting me know she didn't miss me!

All in fun, but still....