10-01-2018, 11:32 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2018
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if i have sex with a man i do not know well, i use a condom. if it is someone i know and trust, it is without a condom. most of the sex i have is with people i know and have know a good while. i do pick strange men up and have sex with them. if they are young and military, it is a good chance that they will not have any std. they are taught to be responsible about their health. if i have had sex with a man enough times to get a good sense of who and what they are, i will quit using the condom. it is so much nicer without the condom. i have had 140+ men since i married. never once had an std. people in the open marriage/swinging/hotwife/etc lifestyles take particular car to be std free. my husband and i get tested every ninety days. always a clean result.
it is all about common sense. you must control each and every encounter. you must use your eyes. first, general hygiene. is the potential sex partner well groomed, clean, smells clean, clothes clean, his or her environment clean. if so, good chance of a clean encounter. but, use a condom until you know the person well. second, before having sex with a person, use foreplay as a way of inspecting the genitals. look for lesions, red bumps, odd smells. if it is a guy, i get his cock hard and then milk it with a lot of pressure and then look to see if there is any smelly fluid or puss present. if there is stop, get up, get dressed and leave. third, talk about sexual history, especially about stds. if the person is hesitant or doesn't want to talk about it, stop, get up, get dressed, leave.
if a person asks me about sex, my history, stds, i tell him everything. if he is not interested in an experienced woman, he is free to go. you will be surprised how many men are afraid to have sex with a sexually liberated woman. also, married people are a better choice. i like having lovers that are married. i feel safer. they are always, far as my experience goes, more concerned about contracting stds than single people and are more proactive.
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