I don't know why couples/singles would pro-actively lie about being bi as some straight couples/singles seem to get turned off by couples/singles professing to even be bi curious.
On the other hand, we have seen many single guys, and some couples, come out of the woodwork professing to be straight in their profiles, but offering to be "open" to some bi activities.... which I think has two well springs. First, like in the original post, we think some folks are just trying to do whatever it takes to get to play. Second, some folks fear openly declaring their being bi or being open to bi activities in their profiles, and only reveal it to other bi couples.
Regardless, it's too bad when folks aren't honest about any of their preferences. After all, wouldn't one want to meet up with others that have similar interests? It seems like that would offer a better chance of success *shrug*
As for us, we consider ourselves "bi comfortable". We prefer to play with bi couples and like light bi activities, but we aren't overtly attracted to the same sex outside a swinging context.
A&D
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