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Good question, as an MD I have only come across this one time. It was in Med school and the woman I was examining simply said, " I live a consensual alternative lifestyle. There has been no domestic abuse."
I have several colleagues who have encountered the same issue and have never heard anyone be judgmental or crude. Most healthcare providers are professionals and have the education and training to deal with patients who live outside "the normal confines of mainstream sexuality". |
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I would draw up a simply BDSM contract stating the activities performed and that its consensual and have her sign and date it. This way you have something in writing by her! Its too easy for a spouse to become disgruntled and then tell you to do something and call the police afterwards and claim it was abuse. WHen my ex and i were married and she brought up wanting to rapeplay, i did some poking around online and read articles where its happened. Since we had a touch and go marriage anyway i decided to have her write it down. I had her do it in the spirit of kinkiness, so she was none the wiser. Paid off cause when we headed for divorce court she told me she would tell everyone how i forced her to have sex. I reminded her of the contract and that i still had it locked away in a safe place! Saved my hiney for sure!
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My wife and I belong to a bdsm group. As the sub, I'm the one with marks when I have them. Never had to see a doctor with marks showing. Several members of that group have had to see doctors for various things when they still have bruises from previous activity. All of them are honest about it and none of them have had a problem. Medical professionals see more of this kind of thing than you may imagine. One person is a nurse. She and her boyfriend fell off his motorcycle and were transported to the hospital where she worked. Before being examined she told them they were going to see some marks that were not related to the accident and that it was consensual. Again, there was no problem.
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