As the various responders indicate we are all different in our reactions to this, even if WE want it.
It has been a long time, but I never had any problems when my wife let another man fuck her. I WANTED her to and I loved every minute of it, whether I was there or not.
The only time there was a problem was when we were first married and she gave an overly enthusiastic friendly kissing greeting to someone else's new boyfriend when she was introduced to them for the first time. On the two occasions when this happened EVERYONE, including the other guy, was taken aback and I WAS upset at her sudden, out of character action. On the other hand, her actions, and later titillating statements during the first 2-3 years of our marriage, fueled my desire to have her let other men fuck her, which she eventually did do on her own initiative and to my surprised delight.
My only regret is that it didn't start a little sooner and last longer, with several more men involved, preferably many more men. I would love to have had her get gang-banged, but that only came close to happening twice. There were plenty of guys who were interested in fucking her, including gang-banging her. Comments were overheard and she was even approached a couple of times, once at a CB club gathering, and another time at a salesmen's convention she was working at as a waitress. I KNOW these were serious opportunities but, as DaveMack suggests, she was doing a lot of mental hoop jumping and by the time she made up her mind to act the moment had passed, to my great disappointment.
As for you, If you have any doubts about your ability to handle your jealousy issues, I would recommend letting it lie. In MY case there was no problem because I am very much NOT a jealous man.
Whichever way you go, I wish you the best of luck.
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