Sex is one thing, love is another. I've had sex with 18 year olds, but I can't imagine being in love with them. My husband is 11 years older than I am. I was first attracted to his wit, intelligence, looks, and then the sex was great. While I have certainly been known to have sex at the drop of a hat, I prefer it with men I like out the bedroom as well. I've found that overall, I really get along and prefer being with men 40 and older. Our personalities are simply more compatible. Life experience counts for a lot in developing character. While I can certainly enjoy a romp with a young stud, I prefer long term relations with someone I can relate to. I know several men I could see myself falling seriously in love with, if I wasn't already married. I still have sex with some men I've known over 20 years now, because I not only enjoy them in bed, but I enjoy them as long term friends as well. But I can't see myself falling in love with a really young man.
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