There was a time in my life where I had fucked all of my guy friends. A few times, it didn't work out well at all. When I had sex with a friend and he turned out to be a really lousy lover, I, of course didn't want to repeat the experience, but being my friend I kind of felt obligated to. When I explained to one guy, I didn't really want to have sex with him anymore he got offended and I lost a friend. I learned the hard way that sex between friends can ruin a good relationship. Now I'm very careful about ever having sex with a good friend and chance losing the relationship. My husband and I usually seek out partners who have already been exposed to some type of swinging and seem to be able to handle it. We've made many long term friends that way. That next level of intimacy with a friend can be great, it can also be a disaster.
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