so many on the fence - so many weighing potential pitfalls and yet the hunger is present. Happyjoe, have you seen the other recent forum post by davey? it certainly isnt the only post like yours, many, inculding myself seem to be walking the same walk - is there something in the water? it is a strange fixation - sex is one of mortalities gifts indeed - we naturally want it to be as good, as euphoric and sensory heightened as possible - what is better than great, hot steamy sex with your lover? - answer: great, hot steamy sex with your lover and someone else....just as long as the egos and emotions stay intact, right? i have been kicking around this metephor for awhile - swinging is like socialism, it works in theory and everyone loves to talk about it. dont get me wrong, i have socialistic ideals so you know where my impetus stands in terms of bluring the lines of monogamy...but it is as slippery as an eel when trying to dissect it. good luck.
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