I think it's time to fire a warning shot here!
Communication is king...Talk to her fact to face, explain your feelings after you sit down and write everything down on your mind so you don't leave anything out.
The reason I say fire a warning shot is, unless something changes, I sense this could be the demise of your relationship. She needs to know that the reasons a lot of marriages fail and people go astray is they are looking to fulfill something that is missing...And you want her to know that you need to be heard because you don't want to be a statistic.
My wife often reminds me about women who are raising children at home, laundry, cooking, cleaning, managing the household, and how it's not reasonable to have overwhelming sexual expectations from most of them. In that case, your time will come as it has with us. It's called taking advantage of an empty nest.
Lots to process here. I sure feel for the both of you.
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