This one is a NO NO for us. We agreed to no overnight stays. She will meet a prospective play mate in the city....and maybe play with him that same day but no traveling and no sleep overs.
The boundary was tested recently when one morning she asked " Tom wants me to got to big city with him for 3 days....what do you think"
I was very disappointed and told i was uncomfortable with this arrangement.......she didn't go and we talked about it later. One of my reasons was, what happens if you are in a car accident and names hit the newspaper. How do I answer in a small town......what was your wife's connection to Tom and why were they travelling together.
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