[franko10]

My wife and I have been together for over 10 years. When we first met, we were both fairly young and had a lot of "vanilla" sex. We'd do it in every room of our house and when she had her period she'd give me daily blowjobs. It was a fun time!

When she was in high school, she was a party animal and definitely knew what she wanted. She won't tell me her exact "number" but has hinted it's over 50. She has told me other stories about boyfriends, specially one who pissed her off. The guy worked at the mall at a fast food place, so she took one of his good friends there so he could see them and then went home with the guy and fucked him. Another time she took his best friend out to the parking lot and gave him a BJ. We first "hooked up" thinking we were just going to have fun and not date, after our first date we decided NOT to have sex right away but we did make out a little. Now I know that less than 12 hours before she had fucked her ex and was probably still carrying his cum. I find all that pretty hot...

Anyway, both of us have been faithful since we started dating.

Over time, we've moved on with our lives and gotten busier with work, family, etc. so our sex life has slowed down a bit. We have always occasionally watched porn together and it went from MF to other things, nothing too crazy but MFM (especially DPs and Double BJs) seem to really turn her on. We've also added a anal to the mix and she likes it fairly often.

We started talking about adding another guy to the mix, she'd like to be the center of attention and I think she knows she's going to end the night tired but very well satisfied. She will talk about it when she is sober (not in great detail) but does acknowledge that she'd think it would be hot or enjoy it. When she's had a few to drink, she is ready to go. She wants me to "set it up" and just let her know a few days ahead of time so she can be ready.

Anyhow, we have tried a few times to set things up (mostly CL). A few times when travelling, all were flakes and/or people not her type. We had a guy lined up local, and invited him to our house on 3 separate occasions over almost a year period and he flaked (yeah I know too many times, but we actually knew a lot about him personally - his name in RL, job, etc and he made up good excuses). It's funny because if he would have showed she would have given him a great time. Obviously we broke off contact now.

Anyone have any pointers/tips/comments?