Although I don't consider myself gay or bi, after a lot of hesitation, I'm ready to try this myself - with another couple. I'm often in Michigan, Ontario, and upstate New York on business travel - so any couples in those areas willing to host a newbie, hit me up with a message and let's discuss. I'm early 40s, 6'1", 200 lbs, fit and attractive. This is about the only thing I HAVEN'T done sexually yet. The final frontier.