[chrandal]

Me and my wife have been together since teenage which is 28 years. We are soul mates and have been through everything together. We had a good sex life which did become a little stale as bringing up children and the daily grind of life for many women puts sex way down the priority list once they know they have had their children. I changed from being possessive in our early years to develop fantasies of others having sex with my wife. It became a strong fantasy as she had only been with me all that time. She enjoyed the fantasy during sex but was like Jekyll and Hyde..when not turned on her morals kicked in and she became quite annoyed that I got to the stage where all my fantasies were about her with others. This did lead to even less sex as she was concerned but eventually I showed her research from various hotwife sites and we started to at least discuss it. Now she had stretch marks and a tummy that clearly showed birth to twins she was very body concious but I did let her knowthat most men like a voluptuous well rounded figure as she has very curvy big hips and whilst not fat she was never a petite woman. Eventually she went on sites and started chatting to men.For a laugh and giggle more than anything. She liked it as she is very social and likes mens company. Finally, as she chatted on cam with blokes she decided a year ago to try a 3 sum. She choses men very carefully, likes a good sense of humour and a sensual man. Hates guys that just talk dirty all the time. She has to feel a connection and chats with guys for weeks before deciding. She is very choosy.
We discussed in depth the difference between sex for fun and sex with feelings. Once she grasped this concept that was it. She likes lots of foreplay and to be sensual and warned me she could not just let another man fuck her...it had to be the whole nine yards. Kissing, oral, sensual love making like it was with me. Well now, one year later, she loves this lifestyle and advocates it for all women over a certain age. She has met 8 guys so far, has regular meets, does threesomes and now wants to try 4/5 together. She is constantly wet, thinks about her experiences all the time, loves making contact with men and the right kind of guy (still very choosy) but once chosen she gives all. Apart from pain and watersports there is really nothing she wont do. She is even doing things she was always reluctant to do like facials and swallowing. She just loves cock right now and genuinely cant get enough. This new woman of mine is so refreshing, is lively, bubbly, fun and a picture of health rather than the homely mum that baked cakes and thought such people were lacking something in their lives. She is still a great wife and mum but now has a naughty side and the experience of having sex wit other men has really enlightened her. Knowing she can go with who she wants and do what she wants yet still have a loving hubby and family at home she thinks is beyond the best thing ever. She knows its not for everyone but opening up a relationship for pleasure only, constantly comminicating about the boundaries and being together totally on this is essential. If done wrong, this lifestyle can ruin many a good marriage. If done right, by chosing men carefully (not those that are playing around everywhere) good friendships can be formed and great sex and variety can be had. So I would simply say to all married women, if you are secure enough in your relationship and your hubby is to and you have considered this way of life...try it. The world needs more hotwives and fun!