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Originally Posted by Sunnygal
Let me make it clear at the very outset - I don't have a problem with "performing" for a guy who wants to watch. In fact, it's fun! However, I have found that, at some stage in a relationship, every guy I've known starts to drop little hints, and then great big glaring ones, about fixing me up with a "friend" or someone he knows, so he can watch and maybe join in. This is different from a spontaneous threesome that happens after more than a few drinks, a bit of slap and tickle and everybody is keen to get it on. What I am talking about is the urge to see your partner being done by another man, in most cases one who is enormously endowed.
I've asked the question many times, and each time the answer has been a vague "it will be a bit of fun."
Just curious!!!!!!
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Sunnygal.
This is going to be a somewht hard question to answer for mst men. When I was younger, I was a very jealous man. I didn't even like other guys looking at my girl. This caused a lot of problems for me in many of my relationship. I'm still not sure what switched on my perv light and made me the way I am now.
I can remember watching porn with my GF and five or six other people, we were all in our early 20's. Other then our host couple whom were in there late 30 early 40's whom were swingers. I can vividly remember the older couple talking about the movies were were watching as if it was just another movie. I can also remember one of the guys that was in the room watching had a huge hard on. I remember my GF whispering in my ear to look at his dick and how big it was. When I looked in to her eyes I could tell she was getting hot! I just knew she wanted to suck his dick. She love sucking dick by the way.
The lady of the house ended up turning off the TV being that we had a 15 year old girl watching with us. Nonetheless, my GF and I left the house being that we had a long drive back home. On the way back my GF was just hot and was asking all kinds of questions about the porn flick we watched and asked if it bothered me that she was looking at that guys dick. I told her kind of but it was all in fun.
What happened next is what I think started the change in me forever. My girlfriend pulled up her dress to her waist while I was driving and started to rub her clit through her panties. It was shortly after that when she told me that she had fucked the older guy and his wife when she was 15 years old. That's how I found out they were swingers.
Just looking at her beautiful facial expressions when she was telling me her 3some story left an impression on me. I loved the way she looked when she was talking about the guys big dick and her 3some.
Moving foreword in time my next GF was a total perv. She had set in stone what had been permeating in the back of my mind of what the next level of my sexuality would be. She was in to a lot of stuff. She liked the idea of watching 3somes. She had a fantasy of watching guys suck each other off. Swinging, you name it, she wanted to try it.
One night while we were watching porn in bed when she asked me if I had ever wanted to have a 3some! I said duh, Yes! She said "I mean with another guy". I looked over at her and once again here was this beautiful women who was rubbing her pussy and had her eyes closed fantasizing about having two dicks to play with. It was just an amazing sight to see.
She told me that all guys always want to watch two women get it on and then fuck them both. Why cant a women want to see two men suck each other off and have two dick to play with. Needles to say, we had the hottest sex that night. And from that point on we started talking a lot about swinging and 3somes. It just made her so hot.
One of my recent GF's was a full blown swinger with her ex husband, so we had a good time talking about her past adventures. But till this day. I love the thought of my GF jerking off and sucking guys with big dicks. I dont care about fucking other women at all. Just knowing that my GF is being sexually satisfied is such a turn on for me. For me seeing the guys dick is also a turn on. I think most guys that like MMF also wants to try sucking cock. They just wont admit it. I'll say it. I would love to take turns sucking a big cock with a hot women.
I don't know if that is an answer, but it sure is what happened to me. It's not cuckolding but it's close to it. I don't like the humiliation aspect of cucking. I'm more of a hotwife guy.
Hope this helps.