I dated my wife for 2 years till we broke up.
In that time we only played with each other and when she left me for another guy we were still virgins.
We met again after about a year and started dating again and this is when I was told the other guy had taken her cherry.
I was very ni'eve and should have been the one to do it and realised why she left me .
She was my first and took my virginity, I still regret not being her first.