hot wife, swinging, polyamory, candaulism, compersion

[BiggTexx]

Cuckolding, hot wife, swinging, polyamory, candaulism, compersion, etc. wow…lot of names... What they have in common is the sexual thrill to share the wife, but every one of this kind of kinky behavior it has some differences…Domination, transference, it depends.

Oh boy...

Curious about the incredibly big amount of guys with same fantasy I started my own "research".

Why you boys get all excited about sharing us.
Well, it seems that are LOT of reasons.

Mr. BiggTexx seems to have a big deal of "sperm competition syndrome", and combined with my exhibitionism it can be a high octane cocktail...

MRS. Bigg Texx, getting curious, very, very curious...

Let chat about sexual fantasies... Mine?
Mine too.
Uh, Uh, Uh...

[jackwife]

My wife has a natural tendancy towards submission and a very strong sexual appetite. I love to push her sexually, introducing increasingly larger dildos, photography, and roleplaying into our relationship. My fantasy is seeing her willingly turned into an uninhibited, submissive slut. Having her beg to be used by other men, and not truly happy without a sore jaw and cum dripping from her satisfied pussy. I'd love to leave her for the weekend with several young men to be fucked and pushed sexually in every way imaginable, have them video tape every second to see her taking each of their cocks in every aching hole. When she returned from her debauched weekend, I'd slowly pump her pussy while admiring her used body, covered in bites, bruises, and dried cum. So yes, I do find other men having sex with my wife very appealing.

[BiggTexx]

Originally Posted by treo

I cant believe no one has commented on your post yet! I love to talk about my fantasies, usually they involve me watching my GF suck off big cocks. She isn't really that much into it, I dont think. But I sure would love to see her suck off some of these nice cocks on this site. I think it comes down to me feeling a little bit of penis envy, I dont think I can completely satisfy her unless I have 8+inches, so the thought of her taking a big cock and seeing her face enjoying it just turns me on.

So if you would like to chat about our fantasies, just add me and we can share them.

Thanks for your feedback! About big cocks, i told to my hubby that big cocks sometimes are just that, not much more than a dildo... It depends what the owner of it (Lol) does with it, hehehehe. An average sized guy with expertise in some other areas and a huge libido can be a turn on bigger than a big cock owned for a sexual moron... Did you read something about the sperm competition syndrome? I'll paste here something super cool I found:

"There is a very simple primal answer to why your husband enjoys this so. Sperm Competition Syndrome. All men are born with it.

Before the church and modern morals females were free to mate with as many males as they cared to. It was good for the species, whether the female's mate liked it or not.

According to the former editor of Penthouse Forum, the number one story, desire and fantasy that flooded their mailboxes was the desire on the part of men to see their wives or girlfriends with another man. It's very common, yet such a taboo that few will admit to having the fantasy.

The reason it turns on so many millions and theoretically billions of men around the world is quite simple and biological. Sperm competition syndrome is triggered when a man or other primate sees his partner with another man, is told of it, suspects it. It can even occur when he is absent from her for the briefest period of time.

If sperm competition syndrome has been triggered, the man will have an orgasm 3 times stronger than usual, his pelvic thrusts will be 3 times as hard when he next has sex with his partner. And he will want to immediately. There's one simple explanation for this: he wants to make sure the baby is his.

This desire has nothing to do with a man's masculinity, sexuality or psychology. It is primal, plain and simple. It's also a very powerful fantasy that once triggered is very difficult to suppress, as it is biological and not psychological. I've heard many men say it was like a light switch going on that couldn't be turned off ever again.

Many men are fine with keeping this fantasy to themselves, but most will find themselves eventually asking their wives to explore the fantasy. And far too many of them are consumed with self loathing, for they genuinely love their wives and cannot understand why the idea of seeing them with another man would turn them on. The sooner they understand the origin of that

A search of the subject on any tube site will bring thousands of results of home videos going back to the stone age of VHS. You will see the girl next door, or more often the mother or grandmother next door generally having a pretty good time indulging in their partners' fantasies._"
Dang I don't remember where I found it, but if you are not submisive nor bisexual, nor etc. etc, then it can be this. Maybe, LOL

Oh Myyyyy, I got serious, shut! Well, I guess that's my alter ego

Ok, let's continue with fantasies!!!

[jackwife]

It sounds like you've struck a good balance with your husband and are very open with your fantasies (very sexy pics by the way!). Ive discussed my fantasies with my wife, and she's turned most of mine into reality. She's reading "the ultimate guide to anal sex" to add anal into our sex lives, and is turned on but reluctant to be shared with another man. In fact she loves the line of very thick vixskin dildo's and loves to cum on them with her mouth tightly wrapped around my cock, telling me how good it feels to be filled by two cocks. She has never really spelled out her own fantasies, just saying that she likes to see me satisfied, or that she simply doesn't know. It's not for lack of listening on my part, or maybe it's her conservative, religious upbringing, but she's reluctant to really say. Or maybe it's her submissive nature and willingness to please. I don't really know, but I'd like to learn. She seems to have so much potential to become a full blown slut, but she has to want it too to make it a reality. It about seeing her utterly satisfied, other men finding her attractive, and a raw desire to see cum from a group of men spilling from her shaved, stretched pussy.

[BiggTexx]

Originally Posted by jackwife

I don't really know, but I'd like to learn. She seems to have so much potential to become a full blown slut, but she has to want it too to make it a reality. It about seeing her utterly satisfied, other men finding her attractive, and a raw desire to see cum from a group of men spilling from her shaved, stretched pussy.

Ohhhh, a woman fully satisfied and glowing with that after sex way to move, to walk… sounds totally erotic. It gives such a feeling of power, of being an irresistible sin... delicious... I know how it feels... Sometimes when some guys -and even way younger guys- watch me I discover myself thinking that they can watch as much as they want but I'm so sure they will not know what to do with somebody like me...! How to ride a wild cat... Just a men can.
That's the kind of feeling of power that can give to a woman...

Lately I found myself thinking about that maybe one of that guys watching me at the gym knows this page, saw the pics, de videos, knows my wild hidden side and it makes me feel so sexy, so turned on…

I stopped wearing bra to work out. Summer arrived and oh boy I get soaked wet while working my body off… Tomorrow it will be packed, everybody wants to go to the gym in holidays and I’m planning wearing a cotton white top, that kind men wear under their shirt on winter… soft and mildly translucent… I know I will sweat. I want to see my hubby’s eyes full of lust watching the boys at the gym drooling for some good fuck they will not have with his wife… Mmmmmmmm

I’m having a ‘new fantasy” my hubby still doesn’t know. He will be maybe happily surprised if he reads this… “We go to one of those adult movies places –I was never in one so I’m not sure how they are…- and I’m wearing a short skirt with no panties, I can see the shape of some men heads in the almost dark room. We sit after walking around so they can see I have a short skirt.
A guy approaches and sits close, we know he is watching what we do, so, my husband invites him to eat my pussy. I spread my legs at the sides in a way I can’t close them at all and I close my eyes to feel deeply that mouth eating me voraciously. Suddenly I notice some more men are close, around. My husband invites them all to eat me, suck me, finger me but not to penetrate me with their cocks. One after the other and sometimes two and three at the time are all on top of me, licking, fingering every hole till my pussy is almost on fire and I’m out of my mind horny wanting a cock inside with desperation. We leave them jerking off in there and I take my hubby home to fuck me over and over and over…”

I’m already thinking in going shopping for some short skirts… I might wearing them with no panties to flash some flesh when we want.
Mmmmmmm

[USMC_BAREBACKER]

I enjoy impregnating wives.

[i_see_stars]

Wow - great post. Well thought out and interesting take on the 'why'. I am one of those who had the light switch flip on and I have been unable to get back to life before the 'cuck'/swing/moresome ideology took over my sexual id- I've tried. I agree with the primal/biological imperative. I think the subconscious admission to that imperative requires life experiences - usually a combination of different events that force one to have to swallow their ego. I have wondered that this manifests in many different ways - if you've been cheated on, betrayed or trampled on at work or absorb great emotional loss like the untimely loss of a close soul(s). The latter is a double edged sword, the emotional loss prompts one to search out quick fixes to improve ones spirit, for some it is alcohol or drugs or anything that can at least bring temporary 'pleasure' - for me, sex became a bigger pleasure than ever before; as sickness and death surrounded me I became much more interested in making the most of it while I am here and healthy. It was in the immediate aftermath of terrible loss that I cheated on my partner of 5 years (platonic as it was) and had an affair which quickly turned into a ltr partnership with a super hot married mother of two who cheated on her hubby for me. I know I am capable of cheating and so is she. Lets just cut the crap, lets bring some other men into the bedroom and experience EVERYTHING - I think she is sexy and I suppose I've succumb to the sperm competition syndrome. I am sick and tired of hurt, i'd rather just embrace both our primal imperative and have crazy sexy fun - together...i say, "while we're at it, lets swing with an occasional hot couple so I can experience more pussy in this life too."

Originally Posted by BiggTexx

Thanks for your feedback! About big cocks, i told to my hubby that big cocks sometimes are just that, not much more than a dildo... It depends what the owner of it (Lol) does with it, hehehehe. An average sized guy with expertise in some other areas and a huge libido can be a turn on bigger than a big cock owned for a sexual moron... Did you read something about the sperm competition syndrome? I'll paste here something super cool I found:

"There is a very simple primal answer to why your husband enjoys this so. Sperm Competition Syndrome. All men are born with it.

Before the church and modern morals females were free to mate with as many males as they cared to. It was good for the species, whether the female's mate liked it or not.

According to the former editor of Penthouse Forum, the number one story, desire and fantasy that flooded their mailboxes was the desire on the part of men to see their wives or girlfriends with another man. It's very common, yet such a taboo that few will admit to having the fantasy.

The reason it turns on so many millions and theoretically billions of men around the world is quite simple and biological. Sperm competition syndrome is triggered when a man or other primate sees his partner with another man, is told of it, suspects it. It can even occur when he is absent from her for the briefest period of time.

If sperm competition syndrome has been triggered, the man will have an orgasm 3 times stronger than usual, his pelvic thrusts will be 3 times as hard when he next has sex with his partner. And he will want to immediately. There's one simple explanation for this: he wants to make sure the baby is his.

This desire has nothing to do with a man's masculinity, sexuality or psychology. It is primal, plain and simple. It's also a very powerful fantasy that once triggered is very difficult to suppress, as it is biological and not psychological. I've heard many men say it was like a light switch going on that couldn't be turned off ever again.

Many men are fine with keeping this fantasy to themselves, but most will find themselves eventually asking their wives to explore the fantasy. And far too many of them are consumed with self loathing, for they genuinely love their wives and cannot understand why the idea of seeing them with another man would turn them on. The sooner they understand the origin of that

A search of the subject on any tube site will bring thousands of results of home videos going back to the stone age of VHS. You will see the girl next door, or more often the mother or grandmother next door generally having a pretty good time indulging in their partners' fantasies._"
Dang I don't remember where I found it, but if you are not submisive nor bisexual, nor etc. etc, then it can be this. Maybe, LOL

Oh Myyyyy, I got serious, shut! Well, I guess that's my alter ego

Ok, let's continue with fantasies!!!

[Unlitlyvialty]

“Ñïàñèáî çà ïîñò, à ýòî òåìà”

[BiggTexx]

Hi I-See-Stars! I’m glad the post was interesting to you.

I started that “personal research” due to my hubby’s out loud fantasies during sex that surprised me the first time I heard him. He is a guy with a LOT of experience and experiences about sex, threesomes, well, you name it, and for a guy that experienced it almost all I thought the wildest fantasies were a thing product of a wild youth times, something done and left behind. I had very little sexual experience when I met him, raised in a nun’s school –ohhhhhh yeahhhh, it sucks.- everything was sin or dirty or forbidden of filled me with guilt just thinking about, specially being owner of a huge libido and hedonistic in some way. He knows I’m also exclusivist.

As a lot of other wives, the first impact it was “WTF!!!
Does he want to share his very truly wifey???” The initial emotion is some sort of shock. We are culturally educated to think that love doesn’t share and sharing means lack of love, lack of respect, a wife as really an object with no emotional meaning nor attachment. (I guess that’s why lots say NO to a proposal of this kind…) BUT… understanding and knowledge are power, no kidding!
I researched the male psychology of sharing, the why it could be, the meaning… and there is when I found the reasons are lot of different ones… and also they had definitions and psychological and even biological explanation!

As a psychological ones, you would find that some guys feel happy for the partner’s happiness, like is happening to them, some sort of identification thing –she is happy, I’m happy-; some others feel insufficient to satisfy their partner and accept to share them with other guys in a way to have them anyway and knowing they are happy. Other cases are related to the man living the wife’s body as his own and sharing or showing makes them feel like sharing their own body –some say it has some content of latent homosexuality- and also some others are just bored and want an open relationship.
In the biological aspect of this “lifestyle” is the sperm war. It seems to be triggered not just for infidelity or a long time far away but also when their female is very sexual.

Isn’t cool to know why?

After my personal research I concluded he isn’t a cuck…: He has the sperm war’s syndrome. His idea of sharing his wife isn’t lack of love or boredom but a call from his genes; is a primitive instinct that woke up maybe because he met me as the bodybuilding/physique athlete I’m, a bathing suit, tan, stages and somebody that made her body and looking hot her career and vocation or maybe because of my multi orgasmic sexuality. His "body" wants to show his supremacy over everybody else.

Understanding the fantasy as a mental and physical thing not related with our emotional and love relationship itself but with his primal instinct as a male reacting to his mate, I thought even in the possibility to make it real. When sex is separated of love, a third or even fourth male it can be even some sort of sex toy –Sorry guyssssssss!- a spice in a sexual encounter, a turn on with no danger of mixing feelings in it.

My husband is a Very Manly man. Seeing him horny as hell has in me the same effect than a sex potion. Knowing he gets horny like that of the thoughts of ME in a sexual situation is honoring how he sees me as a woman, his cravings for Me in erotic situations, Me –again- as the object/subject of his desire are fucking smoking hot thoughts and I just want to rip his clothes off and fuck him. The fact of him wanting others to watch my body is not just hot but it shows the high concept he has about me as a sexual been. Pride.

Since I heard his broken breathless voice whispering while having sex about other men fucking me, the turn on of it started burning to the point that lot of little things changed… For example, my way to go to bed...before, tired after a crazy work out and day I used to sleep in a shirt and panties, now I sleep just with a lil T-string panty and by sure I could fuck him every damn night… my desire level increased as an explosion like if his sperm war syndrome woke up my libido and my hungry of him.

We have now better sex than ever, even than when we met –and we had Good Sex- and we are on way to our 10th anniversary…

[BiggTexx]

Originally Posted by jaystark

I have so many fantasies about my wife.....and she won't do any of them

Maybe you can tell her Why you have that fantasies... Is with HER, not with somebody else, is She the one you want to...