advice needed for first-time anal

[spiceywife]

Hi friends, We're going to be doing our first anal sex/photo/vid session coming up soon...ive done anal once before (not with Torri) but itll be my wife's FIRST time! Since it's her very first, just want to make sure of a few things. Basically, what i want to know is...you guys who have done it (or girls who remember the 1st time)...for the wife did she start to love it right away, at the very first thrust, or did she like it more the second, third , etc time?? Can I expect her to love it more the next time out?? I'm thinking she might find it a little rough going at first, but then will get quickly excited and will start lovin it.

What were your experiences, as far as can i expect pleasure at first thrust or pain??
Any other tips, suggestions are greatly appreciated!
(Someone suggested i set up the cam so you can see wife's facial expression....sounds like a good one I'll definitely do that ;-)

Thanks for your input on this,

C, Torrida's hub

[Detroit33Rob]

The first time I would highly recommend plenty of lube or atleast loosen it up with your fingers. I've had some women that love it the moment you put your cock in them and others that it takes a couple times.

[studlyhungwell]

lube lube lube and did i mention lube

[spiceywife]

nah, not really into oiling up. I just don't like the feel of oil on my pecker. I heard spitting on the asshole or putting saliva on your dick will work well enough. The first time I did anal on a girl, it was no oil, no saliva, and she was totally into it. Maybe she was an exception though..

[Jake_the_dog_man]

I also don't like oil/silicon lubes. I like to use plain old KY, which you ought to atleast have handy.

It took a few times for my wife, but now she is totally into it.

Good Luck!

[toontje]

Women must be ready for it should not hurt
sex is to enjoy, and use many good lubricant have
fun and take time for it

[luv_nylon_feet]

My wife and I, when we first started anal, we tried several different things; dry, spit, lube, KY and she can only take it very slowly until fully in and then we can start thrusting and going in deeper and faster. One day, we were taking a shower together and after she sucked me for a while in the shower she said put it in her ass, I was so excited. Then she turned and bent over and I slid right in and we fucked hard and for quite a while. After our shower I asked her how it was and she replied that it was the best ass fuck she ever got, she thinks that the water may help. From now on, whenever she askes me into the shower, I know she wants to take it in the ass and I am very much willing to give it to her Anyway just a thought, have fun with it.

[spiceywife]

Thank you everyone for your replies...good stuff..we'll def. have fun with it. I might try the water, sounds interesting...anal in the shower...who wouldve thunk it?

[SD_Damian]

I dislike all lubricants - they seem to make things too slippery & the "Friction" is the fun!
I like to use her own natural lubrication by eating pussy & with ass play from my fingers and/or a toy. When she's buxking her hips from getting her ass fucked with adildo while I nibble her clit, I can transition to my cock for her ass & she'll work her clit with the vibe.
Works treeeeemendously well !!

[paterd]

The two most important things to remember are:
1. For HER - when he starts to enter you, push OUT, with the same exact muscles you use to take a shit; it opens you up, just like when you take a shit. Keep pushing outuntil he fills you. Go for you own orgasm as soon as you can.
2. For HIM - Go slow...no slower...still to fast. Resist pounding away until she says okay. Respond to her. Reach around and rub her clit. (That's why I like to do it with her on her back...her clit's easier to reach!) Try your best to make her cum with you in her bowels. Ladies tell me there's nothing like it. If she cums first, then the rest is easy.
As far a lube goes, I prefer good old K&Y. A million doctors around the world can't be wrong!.
Let us know how it goes.