06-01-2023, 12:06 PM
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It always amazes me how couples are fine with having sex, but will never actually talk about it. My wife and I have an open secret. She has her boyfriends, and I have my girlfriends, but we only ever play alone. Why? While I have no problem with seeing her give or receive sexual pleasure with another, she is insanely jealous. She is, however, sane enough to know that if she's going to play, fair is fair. At the end of the day, we remain deeply committed to one another, and that's not going to change.
Talk to your woman! 
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06-08-2023, 12:24 PM
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I agree with kjs. But while this works well for my husband and myself, it isn't for everyone. Give it a lot of thought and think it out. A girlfriend of mine was asked and she kept saying no to her husband. She was afraid it might affect her marriage. What he didn't know was she'd been quite a slut in college but when she got married took her vows seriously. Well, she finally gave in and went to a swingers club with him. She fucked two guys in front of him and had a great time. He however found out the fantasy was great, but got extremely jealous when he saw her in full slut mode, screaming when other men made her cum. On the way home he told her at first he thought it was great, but then realized he couldn't take it and it was a mistake to ask her to do it. She was pissed! She told him you badgered me for a year, I gave in and now you say you can't stand it. Well, I had a great time obviously and I'm going to continue having great sex whether you want to watch or not. They wound up divorced, they had two kids together too. So be really careful about what you wish for.
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06-09-2023, 12:09 PM
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In the relationships we know about where things went bad after, it was almost always the guy's idea and almost always the guy who had a problem afterward. When they argue (even if it's not about sex) it's usually the guy who throws it in her face. Most couples can't handle it and sometimes the fantasy should remain a fantasy. Also, I don't care how many times the other guy promises he won't say anything, he's telling all of his friends (some of whom, might be your friends too) he fucked your wife or got a blowjob from her.
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06-10-2023, 04:52 PM
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You folks are so right. Fantasy is like watching a TV program, subconsciously you know it’s not real but most important you know you can turn it off anytime you want. Watching your wife with another man and decide you don’t like it? Sorry pal, there is no off button. I admit having a few second thoughts the first time, but once the guy came it was all good. Especially after my wife came over to me and wanted me to fuck her with his cum still in her!
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07-13-2023, 01:40 AM
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07-31-2023, 03:21 AM
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I do respect all kinds of relationships, but actually, I just can't understand open relationships. If you both have your own relationship, may I know why you still get together? No offense, just out of curiosity.
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07-31-2023, 01:05 PM
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Guys can usually do that when they're the ones stepping out. "It didn't mean anything! It was just sex!" but freak out when they find out some other guy has been sticking it to his wife behind his back. Some couples can handle it, some can't. It doesn't make one point of view right or wrong. Our first time was spontaneous. I think if it was something we tried to plan ahead of time, Nina would have said "No way". But, it happened at the right time, in the right frame of mind.
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