Stud vs. Slut

[otowncouple]

OK this is one thing that really pisses me off. When a woman is sexually active she is considered a slut, a whore. But when a man is sexually active he is a stud. I have seen this on many posts in this forum and heard men make the reference many times. I have even heard women call other women sluts because they are going out with TOO many men. Why the difference? Why can't woman enjoy sex with others without be called a negative name. Could somebody please explain that to me??????

[DaveMack]

My wife calls herself a slut and she is proud of it. She has other friends who are also proud to be called sluts. On the other hand, we know just as many women who are swingers or hotwives or in some other way engaged in extramarital sex who deplore the term slut. I suppose it depends on how the individuals feel about it.

[ShowOffWife]

First let me say that I agree with you otown, it is a double-standard that stems from some ancient concept that women are supposed to fend off sexual advances and not enjoy sex. A woman that enjoys it to the point of having sex with whoever she wants is labeled a slut or whore. The irony is that a man loves a woman that is a slut as long as she is his slut, but the moment she fucks other men, then suddenly she is a dirty whore. It is also a shame because a lot of women perpetuate this by calling other women a slut and whore because they are aware that she has fucked a few different guys.

Like DaveMack said, I wear the slut title like a badge of honor. I am not ashamed of it. I don't walk around with a t-shirt on that says "I'm a slut, fuck me" but I don't act like a virginal innocent girl when the subject of sex comes up either. If someone outright asks me how many guys I have slept with I outright tell them that I have lost count.

I have had a few women call me a whore and I have a funny comeback I like to use. I look at them straight-faced and say "You need to read a dictionary. A whore gets paid for sex. I fuck men who don't get any pussy from their wives for free. I am slut." I pause just long enough to take pleasure in the look of shock on their bitchy faces as they realize they never give their husband any pussy and he may have fucked me, then I smile and walk off.

[urwifeishot]

Good explanation showoff, will you be my slut? Lol J/K..... Well will ya? Ha ha. To the OP i dont look at the term slut as negative. I love them! I just wish my wife was a slut. The guys on here who have a slut wife are very lucky!

[photograph_man]

There shouldn't be a difference, but it all comes down to jealousy I believe, on the part of some men (and some women).

Women simply can get laid whenever they want, while men have to work a little harder to achieve the same result (a generalization I know, but you guys know what I'm talking about), and this bothers the men that would denigrate women who enjoy frequent sex.

A woman that has frequent sex with multiple partners is hot, and I would never put her down for it (unless by "put down" you mean on the floor for a good fucking )

[num1scamp]

I am a sexual being, and a very proud slut. Yes, if I was a man I would be called a stud. But I have no problem being called a slut, I'm proud to be one, it is of my own choosing, and I'm very good at it. I've told other women they are jealous when they've commented about my attire, or my being surrounded by men in a club.

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[USMC_BAREBACKER]

Whores cost money. Sluts are free. I like sluts. I don't believe in slut-shaming, as long as she's honest.

[otowncouple]

It is one thing when a woman likes to be called a slut. I am fine with that. It is akin to be naughty and I think everybody likes to be naughty from time to time. What I object to the blanket term slut that some people use to say any woman that is sexual active is a slut. It is a huge double standard usually applied by somebody who feels they are superior to everybody else. Get off your high horse and smell the flowers. Just like when a man is Bi and he is called a queer. I have seen that in some forum post here. My husband has had some bi experiences and believe me he isn't gay. We hope to have some more MFM experiences with other men that aren't afraid of labels. So please put the labels to bed and grow up.