Want to please wife

[padot]

About a month ago my wife and I were laying in bed after a great round of sex and she brought up the subject of fantasies. She said that she always had these two fantasies since we met 20yrs ago and was always afraid to bring them up to me. I asked what they were and and she said it was for me to kiss her after I came in her mouth while she still had my cum in her mouth, and the second was for me to go down and eat her pussy after I came in her. I had never heard or thought about anybody doing that but I said I wasn't against doing it if thats whats she wants me to do
To make a long story short we have tried to do it a number of times and I get realy horny leading up to it but once I cum I can't get myself to do it and I feel terrible afterward as she is a great wife.
If anyone out there ever went through this and overcame it please give me some ideas on how you did it, maybe it will help me get through this as I really do want to do this for her

[am_calgary]

I didn't so much overcome this as ask my GF to do exactly this with me.

We have a very good relationship where we can ask each other for whatever we want. That doesn't mean you will be granted your wish (she still insists on condoms). She enjoys pleasing me very much and I asked her to blow me and let me cum in her mouth, and when I had finished shooting to suck the last of the cum out of my cock and then kiss me. It was so hot because when she came up to kiss me she smelt and tasted like cum. It was not too strong and it wasn't like she had a gallon of it in her mouth, just enough that I know she took my load in her mouth. She had swallowed some of it and used the rest as pole wax.

[Alienowl]

Hi, it's not a matter of over coming it, you just have to force yourself to do it. There is something about guys and once you cum you don't really want to do anything else.

I had the same situation with my wife and what I did was just did it straight a way without hesitating otherwise the longer you think about it the less chance of it happening. You will find that once you start you won't stop.

One way you can try is if you 69 with your wife with her on top. Once you blow in her mouth she spins around and just kisses you and allows your cum to drip into your mouth. She effectively has you pinned down and you don't have a choice...lol

The way I got around eating cum from her pussy was during a 3some with a mate of mine. I hadn't cum yet and I was turned on by the idea of eating cum from her pussy. So after he had pumped her pussy full of his cum I went down and cleaned her up. Turned me on even more. My mate then did the same after I filled her pussy. Now after I fill her I love going down on her because I know I like it and I know how much she enjoys it too. It is especially the fact she loves it. Just think what else you do that she likes that you don't like.

Best of luck