03-10-2017, 05:56 PM
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Do we tell her boyfriends or not
Hello. My Wife and I are new to her playing with other guys and are working up to a MFM threesome. Since we are new to this world and unsure about the reactions we would get from family and friends, we keep everything to our selves.
My wife is beautiful and has a amazing body and is a amazing wife and mother. We just don't want people to judge our relationship. We are totally in love and will be forever. If you read my one other post, (The first time she had another cock) she has now had 2 other guys and is working on #3 Question is: Since we aren't verbal about our open relationship due to judging we don't know what to say to the guys she wants. They seem to be bothered that she is married, the first 2 were not bothered enough not to fuck her eventually, but always ask her if she is happy in her marriage and say they wish she wasn't married and that it would be easier if she wasn't. She tells them she is happily married and its just sex. She tells them "Just don't fall for me" lol Question is: Possible guy #3 that she started talking/flirting with last night is kinda "close to home". She is very attracted to him and his body and definitely would fuck him. Im a little unsure about him because he is friends with a few of our friends (We are not directly friends with him) and not sure 100% he can keep his mouth shut. (He is a guy and is gonna want to brag about sleeping with my HOT wife). Since our friends and family don't know or understand our situation, it makes me a little uneasy. I don't want people to hear that my wife is cheating on me. I don't want to tell my wife no to some good hot sex though. Thoughts and advice please? Thanks 
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03-11-2017, 06:23 AM
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I am not bothered by a woman being happily married, as a matter of fact, I prefer it that way. I pretty much only fuck around with married women now. I've had several women that were not married and they can usually get a little demanding. Like wanting more of your time that you can give
 Love to see some pics of your wife, she sounds sexy. Please keep posting, thanks 
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03-11-2017, 09:36 AM
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If he can't be discreet, find another guy. There are so many to choose from. I never hide the fact I am married, and always make sure a man knows, my husband will know everything. I have over the years had a few who wanted to get emotionally attached with me, I ended those relationships when that happened. I make it very clear, always, how much I love my husband and that he keeps me very happy. It is just recreational sex to me.
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03-11-2017, 11:45 AM
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Do tell them
I agree with kjs, burlllee and scamp.
Once the cat is out of the bag, you can never get it back in. If you are worried about others finding out, don't party with anyone you have doubts about being discreet. This guy is awful close to your circle. If you are sure you can count on his discretion, which IS definitely possible, go ahead and have a ball, otherwise cool it. You will never live it down if people you don't want to know find out about your escapades. And regardless of what they all think about it otherwise, you can bet all of your male friends, etc. will be thinking about getting in on the fun and may try to do so. To me, fucking a woman is hot, period. I have my standards to meet, but married or single is NOT one of them, though I have had some of burllleee's experiences with unmarried. It is awkward. And, fucking another man's woman IS a huge turn-on for some guys. The guys who fucked my wife were very impressed with me when she told them that I knew about what she was doing and approved. Then, again, there's the idea that a married woman likely has more experience and less inclination to get clingy, making for more fun, though neither of these is guaranteed.
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03-11-2017, 03:18 PM
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Thanks for the responses. I appreciate your experience.
Main question that my wife and I wonder and talk about is. Everyone knows she is happily married and she will never hide or deny that. So.... Does she tell the boyfriends/new potential boyfriend that I know what she is doing and am ok with it, and its just sex? Or that she is happily married and just likes to sleep with other guys just for sex, but they think she is just cheating on me behind my back? Pros and Cons both ways? Anyone have experience both ways and the outcomes? Sorry for all the rookie questions. We are really new, and really into our new experiences and just have a lot of grey areas on what is "Right or Wrong" Thanks
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03-12-2017, 04:27 AM
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If your wife tells him that you might want to join them in a threesome, he'll be all for it if she says something about it before he cums Please keep posting, thanks
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04-02-2017, 07:14 AM
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The cons are that they will think you're some sort of cucked wimp if they know you know what your wife is doing with them. The cons of pretending that you don't know, is they think you are some sort of fool that she doesn't really love because she's lying to and deceiving you, (plus some actually think they have some blackmail material over her). I can't think of a pro on either side. You have to choose which is worse.
Unless you're there from the start, as the guy in charge of your wife inviting a man to join you guys for a 3some, you'll never have their respect. I have had numerous guys try to woo my woman away from me for one on one sessions. The ones with no class never got any more pussy; the few who did and respected our relationship, got some alone time with her. When my (now ex) wife was fooling around, dating old boyfriends, going out with her girlfriends to pick up men and acting single, we pretended around her extended (quite large) family that I didn't know what she was doing. The humiliation at family events was exquisite. One time, she hopped in a car with a cousin to go on a beer run, and he ran his hand up the inside of her thigh (she was wearing short shorts). She told me about it when she got back. I had to pretend nothing was up. It was hard. I did of course encourage her to tell him it was OK and to go further the next time he tried something. I guess some might call this a 'plus'. Last edited by chris_96; 04-02-2017 at 07:21 AM.
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