Did you lose respect for your husband

[johnrousher]

I'm asking a serious question about the lifestyle. I know that most of the men on here live to see their wives with other men. Possibly with longer or thicker cocks.

I know that most of the men want to see their wives or girlfriends have amazing sex that is better than anything they can give them.

My question is for the ladies.

While you are having sex with other men and watch your husband just watch or jerk off to it, over time does your opinion for your man change?

Like if he eats out a cream pie from another man or sucks him clean during your playtime, do you start seeing him as less of a man?

I'm just wondering if anyone has had the experience that this lifestyle ending up changing their marriage or ending it because the feelings towards their husbands changed.

[kjs1961]

Originally Posted by johnrousher

While you are having sex with other men and watch your husband just watch or jerk off to it, over time does your opinion for your man change?

No.

Originally Posted by johnrousher

Like if he eats out a cream pie from another man or sucks him clean during your playtime, do you start seeing him as less of a man?

Are you implying that a man who has another man's cum in his mouth is somehow less of a man than one who doesn't
Are gay men less "manly" than straight men?
Do you measure your manliness by how much pussy you've eaten?
Kevin has shown zero interest in sex with other men and I'm not interested in seeing him with another guy, but if he becomes interested, it won't change the way I think about him.

Originally Posted by johnrousher

I'm just wondering if anyone has had the experience that this lifestyle ending up changing their marriage or ending it because the feelings towards their husbands changed.

Nope. Not us. I'm sure it has others though

[johnrousher]

Originally Posted by kjs1961

No.


Are you implying that a man who has another man's cum in his mouth is somehow less of a man than one who doesn't
Are gay men less "manly" than straight men?
Do you measure your manliness by how much pussy you've eaten?
Kevin has shown zero interest in sex with other men and I'm not interested in seeing him with another guy, but if he becomes interested, it won't change the way I think about him.


Nope. Not us. I'm sure it has others though

Thank you for your reply. I certainly do not think that a man is any less of a man because he has another man's cum in his mouth or if he is gay. I apologize if you took it that way.


My question comes from a conversation with some friends of ours. They are having marital troubles and the wife claims that after about two years of being in the Hotwire / cuckold lifestyle her feelings started to change about her husband.

She said "About a year after they became active, her husband wanted to participate more than just watching and that led to him eating her after her lovers or sucking on her lovers to get them hard for her again. She said that it was her request that he started doing those things when he said he wanted to be more involved. After almost a year of watching him do these things, my feelings toward him started to change and I started looking at him more as a beta man to the alphas that I was having sex with."


I only ask the question because I do not want this to happen to my wife and I. I don't think it would since we have great communication and after care when we have adventures.

I was just curious.