Xmas 'non-event'

[ix68bj]

After many, many weeks I have finally had sex with my wife - what a 'non-event' that was !

Although we sleep in seperate bedrooms, I had joined her earlier in the morning and eventually pluck up the courage to fondle her breasts. There was no reaction from her but I did then decide to play with my prick.

I then got more adventurous and moved my hand down to her fanny but although I played around the outside there was no response and I was unable to get any of my fingers in.

Before very long, the inevitable happened - she asked me to enter her. Although I had not yet got the 'hard-on' that I wanted, I did eventually achieve penetration (not helped by my having to go and get some baby oil to help the entry).

Intercourse then occurred for a few minutes before she then asked/told me to ejaculate; which I faithfully did.

This whole process took less than 15 minutes - leaving me as frustrated as usual.

This is a fair reflection of how pathetic my 'love life' is and why it is that I make so much use of this site.

I only hope that most of the other men and women who frequent this site had a much better time over the Christmas and were able to get the satisfaction that they were hoping for. Let me know how you got on !

Hope you had a merry Christmas and have a 'randy' New Year

[gatorfan]

hey man,

I feel your pain. My wife has no interest in sex and it is killing our marriage. We are definitely on separate pages when it comes to sex. i couldn't even get my fingers wet and has been about a week and a half since my last sexual encounter with my wife. usually i get sex about once every 1 to 2 months. my sex life fucking sucks so much ass. so like you, i have to come to this site and see for myself that there really are women out there that like sex. lol

[rogerb]

I am in the same boat as you. My wife closed her legs to me over seven years ago.

[gatorfan]

WTF? what are we doing wrong and why do we put up with this shit?

[auto5]

me too i have not had a fuck in 4 months and it,s not looking good for the future

[brunswickman]

Are your wives fucking someone else? Or do they just not want any dick at all?

[jeff100]

no they have just totaly gone off sex like mine has any suggestions

[emotional heat stroke]

Get rid ?

[justbaby]

Sounds like there are issues that have led up to your wives not wanting any sex. Could be she is just not sexually attracted to you anymore, she may be having pain while having sex, kids.....what is ur relationship like with the kids? This can affect the way she tends to be in bed with you...., bored with what you do with her and just does not find what you are doing to be exciting anymore, stress, menapause, and the list goes on! Women are not even simpilar to men....you guys can have the wind blow across your penis and you get hard and want sex. Women on the other hand need physical and mental stimulation. When something is bothering us....the harder it is for us to become sexually excited with any man. Soooooo figure out what is going on and try to fix that problem first and maybe the sex will follow after it has been fixed. Best of luck to all of you!

[sexydelraycpl]

I'm shocked to read this string, no sex for months or years?? How are things outside of the sex?? I couldn't imagine not having sex with my wife at least 2 or 3 times a week. I'm not bragging in any way, I'm just saying that when there is no sex there is no intimacy, no intimacy usually means that there is little or no love in the relationship. Of course there can be issues with intimacy related to abuse, trauma, sometimes low sex drive related to medical issues. If that's not the case then I then I wonder what the overall quality of the relationships are. We're as attracted to eachother today as 21 years ago when we met, she can't get dressed in the same room without fending me off from an ass grab. Do you still do love her and do romantic things for her? Have you tried marriage counseling? Best of luck!!!!