01-05-2010, 01:23 PM
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Need Help Getting Wife Comfortable with MMF!
HELP!
My wife and I have been married for 10 years and I've always wanted to have a MMF threesome or be with another couple. We have a great love life and the sex is nothing less than incredible. Our fantasies and dirty stories we share are dominated by group sex and the idea of her being with me and another man. She gets so turned on by the idea of double penetration! But alas, she's not interested in this site and is timid about getting on cam, let alone finding a safe playmate to join us. ...but, where there's a will there's a way. I love her and would never want to do anything to make her uncomfortable. However, I think if we did this together and found the right person/couple, it would be incredibly erotic for both of us... So, DMW members, I need ideas! Let's hear them so I can get my wife done! 
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01-05-2010, 01:48 PM
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I would suggest that you go to an on premise swingers club. Have some drinks and dance and have fun. No means no and she does not have to do anything at all. You can see couples fucking in the party rooms or you could fuck her in a private room. It may take a few visits for her to relax but if it turns her on she will start dressing sexier and be more relaxed. You do not ever have to do anything.
After a few times she went bra less and no panties and started letting guys feel her up and play with her 40D tits. Then the guys she liked, we would talk and if I liked their wife, we would end up fucking them. That is how we started and it works and we know couples that go every month and never fuck anyone there and hopefully they are making contacts and fucking others in private. We found many friends that we enjoy and they come to our boat and home and we go to theirs and we have fun and never a problem. Hope this helps
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01-05-2010, 02:05 PM
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Not the same
A strip club is not the same as a swingers club. Chose a swingers club that is for couples only. Everyone is there for the same reason and she is not competing with 19 year old bimbos who are working for money. Just tell her let's check it out and YOU DO NOT have to do anything and if someone bothers you just tell the people who are running if you have a problem and it will get straight fast.
Guys at at a strip club are trying to fuck a stripper and at a swinger club people want to share partners.
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01-05-2010, 02:38 PM
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Well put. I think she needs to be interested in sharing to begin with. So, I need to find a way to explore the sharing fantasy with her beyond the bedroom... even if it is just on this site. Thoughts? Maybe reading the experiences forum post?
Fuck. Thats it. Just answered my own question there. She would be into that. You rock, Smokey. Thank you. Last edited by n1c3gi; 01-05-2010 at 03:09 PM.
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01-06-2010, 07:07 AM
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I'm trying to get my wife involved as well, so I'll be keeping a close eye on this thread. Thanks n1c3gi for asking the question I couldn't!
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01-06-2010, 08:25 AM
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Pictures
Looked at your profile and her pictures and she seems pretty uninhibited. I would love to fuck her and play with her tits. You just need to take her to a swing club and encourage her to show skin and you will have all kinds of guys wanting to fuck her. I wonder if her problem is not wanting you to fuck other women so she does not want to open that door. Just a thought.
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01-06-2010, 08:39 AM
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Exhibitionist - glad I could help. PM me if you find anything that helps to get your wife interested.
Smokey, yeah, that's definitely a consideration. However, she's not the jealous type at all. Years ago, I used to work in the adult industry (not as an entertainer!) and would frequently go to conventions and events. In the course of business today, I go to conferences and inevitably strip clubs with the guys when we're out of town. I tell her exactly and honestly what goes on at the clubs and she never shows any indication of concern, jealously or other negative emotion. Beyond that, she knows I love porn and is totally cool with my (rather massive, 700GB) collection and will watch video with me. Beyond that, when I tell her about my group sex fantasy, its almost always about her and another guy; So, I don't think there's a real concern there about me being with another woman. I'll let you guys know how the stories go. Probably won't get a chance to read some with her for a few days, but already have the ones I want to read with her bookmarked  !Quote:
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01-06-2010, 09:55 AM
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Comfortable with MFM??
Just a thought... maybe she feels alittle self concious about her appearance!! You could start by telling her about the comments you've recieved on this site about her maybe to peak her interest. then buy her some sexy slighty revealing clothing and take her out, pointing out when other men are checking her out. Go to a bar or a favorite place and try kind of playing a game and have her sit away from you a bit and see who approaches her. Let her know its OK for her to flirt. EVENTUALLY she should feel sexually attractive to other men. Maybe invite one of these men to your table and strike up a friendship, slowly and casual at first. Don't push her though, let her, in her own time submit and decide if she's comfortable enough with this indevidual to take the relationship to the next level. Whatever you do don't show any jelousy!!
Love your profile and photos!! She is definetly a HOTT wife to be proud of!! S and W
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