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[ncmaleman]

I just stumbled into this site and it has been an eye opener.
I knew that there were 'swinger' clubs and that some couples were cool with their partners fucking other people. But damn I didn't know so many men were trying to find other guys for their wives to fuck. Not only setting their women up but posting pic and video of them getting fucked and sucking.
I think its about the hottest thing I've know of. I read and read and my dick get harder and harder. I mean for something that use to be the last thing a guy wanted, to catch his wife fucking someone else to change to finding a dick for his wife to fuck. Where did this come from? Was it always there and just not something that was known (at least I didn't) or has the internet and porn gotten more and more people interested in sharing their wife?

This has really flipped a switch in me for two reasons.

One, I think it would be such a turn on to see my wife get her pussy filled with another man's dick and cum. Because sluts have always been women that turned me on, a woman that likes to get fucked and doesn't care much who it is. So to know that my wife wanted to get fucked by other men often just because she wanted some dick in her pussy would make me hot.
Two, because it's just so un-manly or un-cavemanly. We men have long been,"that's my property, keep your hands off", and now we say, 'come fuck my wife'. What a change.
I guess it's partly that women are becoming a more equal part of society and men are changing to make room. Women are becoming more dom and men more sub.

I notice this in my relationship with my wife and other women. When my wife got less and less into sex at first I went out and fucked other women. But that wasn't easy it involved more work than I wanted to do. Then after watching more and more porn and going to ABS where there were gloryholes I got my dick sucked by other men. For years I just got sucked, then I decided to (after more gay porn) to suck some dick myself. I liked it, it fulfilled a taboo, raunchy urge I've always had for forbidden things.

Now, as sex with the wife has dropped off even more I am more and more interested in sex with men. It has been almost a year since I fucked another women, I only fuck my wife about once a month or less. It is a lot easier to hook up with a man than chase or beg a woman for some. I've probably sucked only 5 or 6 dicks a year and only let one guy that I've sucked the most cum in my mouth. I have fucked three guys and been fucked once. I mention all this because it seems I have gotten farther and farther away from traditional married man sex and it looks like there are a lot more guys than I thought that are doing the same thing. At least a third of the guys on gay hook up sites are married.

The women on this site and in these 'open' relationships are certainly not the Susie homemaker types. They are going out, getting fucked ( a lot by black men which is also a big step) coming back in with a pussy full of another man's cum and getting their husband to clean out their pussy. ( that part is real real hot to me). I've only been reading these post here for two days but it seems like there are two main types of couples here. Those that the husband is still in control and encourages his wife to fuck other men. Maybe for a couple of reasons, to be able to get him some different pussy, or because he wants to watch her get fucked, or both. The other would be when the woman is in control and she wants some different dick and has the strength to tell the husband she is going to go get it.

This is all a BIG turnon to me. Just to know there are married sluts getting dick when they need it. Guys finding dicks for their wife to fuck. I doubt if this site will change my sex life, my wife is really not into sex so I doubt I have much luck getting her to fuck somebody else. This site will increase my masturbation rate though, reading all these post gets me very hard. Even if some of them are just made up, and I bet quite a few are, they are still opening a whole new outlook on married/partnered sex. I dig it.

[slippery_dick]

I take exception with your statement that the women on DMW are not the "Suzie Homemaker types".

My wife is a PERFECT lady and mother of our children, out of the bedroom. She never uses foul language alone or in mixed company, has no tattoos, peircings, doesn't do drugs and would never carry on an affair behind my back. She "keeps" house in the traditional meaning and is always supportive of me, as I am of her.

INSIDE the bedroom, however, she is a ravenous, sexually agressive woman that loves, absolutely loves sex and is willing to try most anything. She loves to have multiple men service her and loves to watch me with other women, as well as men. Sometimes we just lay next to each other and masturbate ourselves to orgasm as we relive old experiences or watch some porno.

She also supports my desire to be alone with another guy once in a while and sometimes likes to be alone with another woman. It's really no different than a guy wanting to go bowling once a week or so with the guys, have a beer and do some "male bonding". My wife does like-wise.

I really enjoy all kinds of sex and rellish the taste & feel of a wet pussy pushing into my face as it's orgasming. I also love the taste & feel of a hard cock pulsating in my mouth and spurting its necter on my tongue. I love to watch her fuck 3 or 4 guys, one after another and sometimes, clean up after them. I love it ALL!

[ncmaleman]

Didn't mean to offend, just to use a phrase thats usually associated with very tame women. I realize on here a lot of the 'Suzie's' are 'Suzie Sluts' and that they are fine 'homemakers' as well as women that love sex and are strongly involved in getting their sexual needs met.
I just wish my wife was more like a lot of the women on here.I envy you guys that get to see your wife take dick.

[david e]

I think men sharing their wive is still the exception and not the rule but with the advent of the internet it is just easier to hook up and meet like minded people.

[ncbymail]

I am sure you're right most men are not into letting their wife fuck other guys, certainly not taking out adds to find a guy for their wife.
But I think there is a lot more of it going on than people think. I just chatted with a 26 year old guy tonight that wants me to fuck his hot little wife. When people that age are looking to fuck someone my age it is pretty widespread..there are 600 people using this one wegsite right now while I'm typing this.
I'm encouraged because I want to fuck someone 26 year old wife!!